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Scam!
December 24, 2023

The sie is a scam! Save your money and go elsewhere. Some profiles are fake! They give you pictures of 60 year olds and I would realistically say they were half that age!.

Date of experience: December 24, 2023
Texas
1 review
4 helpful votes
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You've Been Had
December 18, 2023

This site is has got to be the most expensive dating site that you can go on. It doesn't take long to realize that something just isn't right. Nobody wants to really date they just want to chat. No subscription, you pay every time you want to chat it cost a dollar. Example, if you say hello that's 50 coins and at $5 for 220 coins you ask or reply five times you've spent five dollars. So in say five minutes you may spend 20-30 dollars and you've asked where each other live. Everyone is about getting you to chat and that's it. They basically try to entice you to chat and it's always with much younger women for guys. Not one person wanted to actually meet and get to know each other even though we supposedly live in the same city. They give free coins once a day and it's no more than enough one message, hello. There's much better alternatives.

Date of experience: December 18, 2023
Pennsylvania
1 review
5 helpful votes
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50 women in less than 2 days!
December 6, 2023

I havent spent any money yet, till I could do some research on the internet and find some good moral reviews and haven't found one. I filled out my profile and in less than 2 days I had over 50 women beating down my phone I haven't responded to anyone cuz I wasn't going to spend money I only clicked on like and that was it, some of them got mad because I didn't respond after I checked out their profile which is a hint right there, I get new clicks every minute on my profile I'm probably over 100 by now in 2 days are you kidding me so after careful review of all the unsatisfied customers I decided that I am not going to spend a dime, damn shame cuz of some of them were kind of cute, oh well anyone have any other suggestions on any dating sites that are legit?

Date of experience: December 6, 2023
California
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Pay coins to chat scam.
October 18, 2023

You get to pick a package by coins. Each send chat cost you coins its a scam using AI. The conversations on most dont respond correctly to your questions. For a male you get bombared by people that dont fit your set filter. Hey Babe, Handsome, are the common site responses. All the women have conversation that end in please don't leave me, some sort of sexual advances. Ask them question on the area they live. They change the topic.

Date of experience: October 18, 2023
Ohio
2 reviews
10 helpful votes
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It's anything but dating! J4Dream.com with their real and genuine ladies is like a breath of fresh air compared to Dateyou. I have never felt more ripped off than when dealing with Dateyou. They are con company run by unscrupulous money hungry fraudsters! The site is entirely about scam. You get to chat only with paid employees. Girls aim at making you deplete credit on chatting since they get a share of it. Try to mention that you are coming to see them next week and they will beat around the bush and refuse. Big shout out: stay away!

Date of experience: October 2, 2023
Colorado
1 review
6 helpful votes
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dateyou.com
September 24, 2023

Fake photos stolen from facebook and fake ID and robot AI conversations, there to drive up "coin" sales. Pure bull$#*!, don't fall for it.

Date of experience: September 24, 2023
Illinois
1 review
3 helpful votes
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DateYou is a scam. I have proof below
September 7, 2023

I was talking to Gisselle66, and she then posted an entire conversation she had with some user named ChatGPT looking for advice for how to respond to my inquiry to meet. If the following doesn't prove Fraud, then I don't know what does. Don't waste your money!

At 23:50:
Respectful Response to User Default (GPT-3.5) User How should I respond to this without accepting his answer about Candace? "Why waste a $1.50 to tell you.I...AM...NOT.AVAILABLE...! I found someone on this site over 3 months ago and I have fallen in love with her. I will never message anyone else except Candace." ChatGPT You can respond respectfully without accepting his answer by saying something like, "I appreciate your honesty, and I'm glad you found someone you care about. However, I was just curious about Candace, so I hope things work out well for both of you." This response acknowledges his feelings without engaging in further conversation about the topic. User What questions could I ask regarding that? 3 / 3 ChatGPT If you're genuinely interested in getting to know more about Candace or the situation, you could ask questions like: "That's great to hear you've found someone special in Candace. Can you tell me more about her?" "How did you two meet on this site?" "What do you like most about your relationship with Candace?" "Do you have any plans for the future together?" "How has your experience on this site been overall?" These questions can help you engage in a conversation without challenging his previous statement. User How should I respond to this? "Trying to figure out how we can move forward. I'm really not into dirty chats, I'd like to talk with you so we can have a conversation and see if we click and if there's a spark. I'm not pressing you to meet IRL yet, but I do want something more satisfying than this." ChatGPT You can respond by expressing your interest in meaningful conversation by saying something like, "I completely understand. I'm also interested in getting to know someone through meaningful conversation. Let's chat and see where our connection takes us." This shows that you share the same intention and are open to a more substantive interaction. User Longer ChatGPT Certainly, here's a slightly longer response: "I appreciate your approach and your desire for a genuine connection. I'm also not into dirty chats and believe that meaningful conversations are a great way to establish a connection. Let's take our time to talk, get to know each other better, and see if there's a genuine connection and chemistry between us. While I'm not ready to meet in person just yet, I'm open to building something more meaningful through our conversations. Let's see where this journey takes us!

Date of experience: September 7, 2023
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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It's fake
September 2, 2023

Algorithm. A bunch of women writing is fake. I guess they are scammers, male, can be some women, definitely using fake profiles. Not recommended. You will waste your time. They only want that you chat to charge money for every message.

Date of experience: September 2, 2023
Texas
4 reviews
5 helpful votes
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Scam site
August 18, 2023

Spent a few bucks buying credits so I could chat with so called hot women. At least 70% of the women wanted to sleep with me yet not one was willing to switch the chat to another app which was free so we could arrange to meet for a meal. The usual response was "I'm more comfortable chatting here."
Avoid this site if you're trying to genuinely find someone honest.

Date of experience: August 18, 2023
Missouri
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Total Scam
August 13, 2023

I was chatting with someone for over a year. We seemed to be into each other as long as we stayed on the site. We never met or ever had plans to meet. I'm pretty sure she's either "bait" or a "virtual woman " beware!

Date of experience: August 13, 2023
GB
1 review
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Disgusting totally fake
August 1, 2023

Fake photos, inundating replies which all sound similar, and no matter how many photos i try adding to my profile they won't put one on show

Date of experience: August 1, 2023
Arkansas
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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East of money n time
July 18, 2023

They want to talk dirty and leading you on and then they won't can't or not yet. Just a money pit. Don't get sucked in.

Date of experience: July 18, 2023
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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My opinion the app is full of bot and they charge you to chat with them to get you to spend money NG

Date of experience: July 16, 2023
Virginia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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MINUS 5 STARS
July 12, 2023

None of the "women" asked can describe major streets or bodies of water in their area that a 12-year old would know. They contact you like you are new to the site, even though you just spent 2 weeks chatting with them. TOTAL SCAM!

Date of experience: July 12, 2023
California
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Total scam.
July 1, 2023

It's a total scam. I also read their T&Cs and not one mention using BOTs "for entertainment" as several other services do (Usually in size 1 font!) Don't doubt some people are real - but I couldn't fine ONE! Laws need to address the theft committed. And it truly is theft since not indicating the fact BOTs and/or false profiles used.

Date of experience: July 1, 2023
Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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SCAM
June 28, 2023

Piece of $#*! fake site. Everyone has an excuse not to call u. Must keep giving away your money to chat. SMH. The so call girls rather text and spend money on coins than talk on the phone. Doesn't make sense. Don't waste your time or money

Date of experience: June 28, 2023
Florida
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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Dollar spent on a dating site like this and when it is not working well and it comes to the point where you are making this a very good chance of you getting in love and indecent relationship. And you don't get a reimbursement when there's an automatic charge you did not authorize.

Date of experience: June 24, 2023
Michigan
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Total Rip off and Fake
June 22, 2023

They charge per responce and sentance. They have fake women I am near positive either work for tge site, Own it, or it's A.i. So you need to buy more Coins. Cose $10 for like 5 sentances and the women were titally fake... Do not waste your Time or money... It's sad

Date of experience: June 22, 2023
California
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I've was a customer of this site, I tried talking to Beautiful girls, and ugly girls... NOT ONE OF THEM IS REAL. They will continue to refuse any kind of outside communications... even after you have spent a lot of money to just send messages... please don't fall for this scam like I did. It's really sad some people will just try and profit off others sadness without being a legitimate dating site. Heck... you could do the same thing... but allow real people to try and get together... I wish I could give it Zero stars.

Date of experience: June 11, 2023
Illinois
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Fake full of bots and scammers
June 10, 2023

No matter how many coins you buy and chat with someone you never get off this site no emails no phone numbers no meeting what a fking joke

Date of experience: June 10, 2023