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Hungary
2 reviews
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I don't trust women from DateYou
August 29, 2025

They monitor and modify all correspondence, therefore you can't exchange contact details. The majority of women seem not sincere because they don't want to show their faces on camera. I always watch girls from J1Love.com
On live video, and most of them don't have any problem with showing themselves on camera. I'm pretty sure that they are more genuine there and their intentions are what they claim them to be. I don't really trust women from DateYou. In order to trust someone on a dating site I need to see her live. The prices aren't low on DateYou. I would say they are too high for this low quality.

Date of experience: August 28, 2025
California
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Scam or fake site!
June 15, 2025

Zero actual physical contacts. They only want to chat on the site and take your money. Absolute scam

Date of experience: June 15, 2025
Italy
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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There is no way to trust pretty women
March 24, 2025

It's not as good as it seem to be at first. There are a lot of problems to deal with, first of all - scammers. There are too make of them. You can meet an occasional con artist even on truly reputable platforms - but it happens so rarely that it does not turn into a problem there. But as for DateYou, the site is literally unusable because of scammers. They create fake accounts and ty to rip people off. There is no way you can trust pretty women on DateYou.

Date of experience: March 3, 2025
California
2 reviews
26 helpful votes
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What a scam crock of sh1t
February 17, 2025

This "dating platform" at first appeared to be legit. I made a basic profile with a few pics and within minutes got several messages. All the accounts had what looked like normal candid cellphone pics. Most of the women were cute to very attractive. I was excited and very intrigued. That ended when I realized how much money it took just to send one limited text message. 50 cents is just ridiculous but I decided to limit my conversations to 2 gals. After a few days of chatting I had spent $230 and really knew nothing about these ladies. It was non stop PG-13 sex talk and unoriginal fake engagement designed to keep me excited like Pavlov's dog. I felt I had developed a little rapport with each gal so I tried to plan a date...nope. Tried to move conversation to email or text...nope. What's the point then to it all? The point is to empty men's pockets. After $300 I gave up. Save your money. It's sad that people would be that disingenuous with peoples feelings and money. I find it abhorrent.

Date of experience: February 1, 2025

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California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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It is 101% FAKE
February 15, 2025

Be careful they will pull you in and take your money with the promise of hooking up. But first they need to get to know you. They got me. You can't trust anyone who is on that site. Please don't go there. Keep your money.

Date of experience: February 6, 2025
Spain
3 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Successfully separating men from their cash
February 4, 2025

There are no real girls there. Only bots lol. They bombard your email with messages telling you how sexy you are - even if you don't have photos in your profile. When you pay for membership they vanish into thin air. Don't be coned into DateYou trap. They are consummate criminals. All they want is separate you from your cash without introducing you to at least one real girl.

Date of experience: August 26, 2024
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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APPLE CORE...
December 24, 2024

You might as well enjoy the art of listening to a woman beg to keep messaging her so they can earn money or step up the latter to meet the better man, and there will always be a better man. You have a 1% chance to meet any woman on the 3 sites they are tied into. FetishSpace, Date you, Granny. Among the Grabby's there are some young ladies you can talk as dirty as you want. The true Graannys are mostly [sgagy-wags] only buy coins when they have for each coins you buy they give you a coin. Example buy 2000 you get another 2000. 4000 can go only so far at 60 coins per chat. You think you are going to slide your $#*! into any of these women, you are very wrong. I will tell you why you won't These sites are a perfect place for the woman of beauty or not so beauty to,become a mans whore without any downside. Why should she come out to the very thing that provides safety, income, and company from a new friend or a man who is sucking her tits on cyber space'. She can climax without you being with her. No STD, NO PHYSICAL BEATING,ETC iT took me over two years to realize they are the best at lies and the art to beg. Good Luck, over all it is up to you.

Date of experience: December 22, 2024
Pennsylvania
3 reviews
9 helpful votes
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Money scam
November 10, 2024

You try to reach out to a lady
Most of the response are similar. Only feel safe chatting on the site refuse to send email. Like phone sex. They just try to keep you hooked with one liners so you continue to respond(at a cost) to the messages
This site needs to be investigsted

Date of experience: November 10, 2024
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Total Sxcam!
September 29, 2024

I am a cybersecurity expert, and this is the worst face site I ever found. The women are mostly fake, and when your disclose their fakes, they erase the profile your paid to establish. Sexy pictures, but they are not real persons.

Date of experience: September 29, 2024
Georgia
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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All chat bots
September 23, 2024

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Date of experience: September 23, 2024
Utah
1 review
0 helpful votes
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'DO NOT' waste your time on the 'dateyou' website. It is 101% fake. Every single profile is nothing more than a person sitting at a desk, working for some company. Trying to get you to 'BUY' coins. That's it. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Fortunately for me. I was smart enough to catch this before spending a red cent on their stupid coin ploy. But I have to give them credit for trying. (I only chose one star because I was forced to.)!YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!

Date of experience: August 30, 2024
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Such a scam site.
July 2, 2024

Every woman on the site is only interested in keeping you buying coins. I, personally think, the "women" on the site work in a call center or are A.I. Bots. Don't waste your money on this site!

Date of experience: July 2, 2024
Panama
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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Is DateYou a Scam?
June 21, 2024

From my perspective, yes. Responses from females I contacted are contrived, and do not specifically questions I posed. Requests to communicate via email or another message service go unanswered. Very early in a few messages, the respondent made direct reference to my genitals. The latter is a dead giveaway - these are not real women communicating.

Date of experience: June 21, 2024
Hungary
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Most likely girls are paid
June 17, 2024

On the other sites I use like Seek4Match
Women actually strive to meet (well, it's the only way to build a relationship, isn't it?) so I find DateYou women confusing. I had been chatting with mixed success with quite a few women on DateYou until I ran into a problem: they found all kinds of excuses to put off the meeting. So I think all these words of love that girls told me there were lies and all their promises were false, something is wrong with them. Now that I have read other reviews I also come to the same conclusion: most likely girls are paid by DateYou so they are there for money.

Date of experience: June 17, 2024
Kentucky
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Because they are nothing more than a big rip off and I m going to have this review posted on for everyone to see and read about it, plus I'm trying to get my money back in my bank account.

Date of experience: May 8, 2024
North Carolina
5 reviews
18 helpful votes
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Warning! Fake site!
February 29, 2024

This site is completely a scam. The people are all Bots and reply always in and with the same responses. You have to keep buying coins and wasting time and money. The bot females will always try to make you stay, but RUN!

Date of experience: February 29, 2024
Kentucky
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Scam and Easily Proven - Just Read
February 6, 2024

The slot machine game when you login is nice. You bet 25 coins to win or lose more coins. At least you feel like you've gotten some value out of your money.

Seriously, this site is a scam. Never have I seen so many "girls" that live in my town on one dating site. More here than Tinder or AdultFriendFinder. You buy and burn coins to talk to dead-end profiles.

How do you know it is a scam? I replied to three profiles in the middle of the night, and each profile responded back within 5-10 minutes. Seriously, what a coincidence that all three users were up at 3:30 am. Once you suggest taking the chat to something like WhatsApp (that is both free and encrypted), they all belly ache that they feel safer on dateyou.com or I am not respecting their desire to be get to know me on that site. It's all non-sense as who feels safer on a shady site, in which your chats are not secure and subject to monitoring (so you don't shout BOMB in a chat)? Why pay for chatting when there are better and more secure chat sites? One user said she does not yet use Instagram, but she intends to really soon. The website algorithm must detect when you go online and immediately prompts a bot, a fake or paid user to engage you as the likes and messages start coming within minutes.

So, if you don't mind being led on by bots, fakes or profiles that are being compensated by the platform owner to jerk you around, then have fun. If you value a dollar and know when to call bulls**t, then don't bother with this site.

Rinse and repeat this review as most all of these sites are operating in the exact same manner.

Date of experience: February 6, 2024
Connecticut
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Fake responders
January 14, 2024

They never answer a question you ask the woman, avoid responding to you.
I had a conversation 3 years ago on date you.com. The girl was plain looking, after my third chat I knew she was a false person. So today I spotted her, same woman,I tried to chat, doing that her reply page had my conversation with her from three years ago. I could of started up right then and chat with the ghost

Date of experience: January 14, 2024
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Totally a scam
January 12, 2024

I think it's funny that I get messages from girls telling me that they think I'm, "so cute". When I don't even have a photo on my profile. Asked for email address from a few, and the same response, "I don't have an email account..." Well how did they sign up. Total scam. Don't waste your time.

Date of experience: January 12, 2024
New Jersey
4 reviews
8 helpful votes
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Red Flags Everywhere
January 9, 2024

The entire process is shabby the dozens of responses I got about being so "Hot" or "Sexy" when I didn't even post an image.

Date of experience: January 9, 2024