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DateMyAge is a global age-positive platform for deep and meaningful online connections. It addresses the challenge of building connections in midlife, offering a respectful, safe community for those seeking long-term online relationships or global connections, sharing life experiences, and exploring new cultures together. DateMyAge stands out by valuing genuine, verified interactions, ensuring a trustworthy environment free from ageism, and promoting real, fulfilling online companionships.
DateMyAge has a rating of 2.9 stars from 408 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with DateMyAge most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and customer service. DateMyAge ranks 23rd among Social Network sites.
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I was so excited as I received very nice emails from men, but quickly realized that it sounds too good to be true. No other dating sites uses such approaches and word choice. After googling and reading the reviews it's pretty straightforward what scam it is. I hope this scammers will be caught asap. Just awful what they are doing! Luckily i didn't sign up, though I was close.
Stepping into the world of online dating, I was geared up for a journey of connection and discovery. However, the absence of an incognito mode turned my venture into a mixed bag. While I appreciated the transparency, the lack of privacy options left me feeling exposed, detracting from the overall experience. On the flip side, the exclusive content available for premium members was a game-changer, offering insights and perks that enriched my journey. This treasure trove of information and tips made navigating the complex world of online dating more rewarding, providing a glimmer of hope in a sea of uncertainty. Despite the setbacks, the exclusive content served as a beacon, guiding me through with determination and resolve.
Dear Shery, Thank you for your in depth review of the platform. I am assuming you are worrying about your privacy thus the question in privacy, No worries, We have implemented a number of measures to protect your data including:
Data encryption: All customer data is encrypted both in transit and at rest.
Access controls: Only authorized personnel have access to customer data.
Vulnerability scans: We regularly scan our systems for vulnerabilities and take prompt action to remediate any that are found.
We currently have no incognito within the website but you are most welcome to use a browser that offers so when browsing the site.
I hope this clarifies your privacy concerns.
However, if you are looking for love and not willing to spend heaps of money DO NOT subscribe to DateMyAge because it will cost you for every note you send or receive. I call this a BIG SCAM and I want to help as many people as possible to save their money and not use this site. For instance: I was asked if I wanted 1000 more credits (sending/seeing notes) I would pay 0.65 CAN which ended up as being over $11,000.00 on my credit card. DON'T take a chance and save your funds.
Dear Anne, We are delighted to hear from you. The membership fee and purchase of credits are two separate payments on the site. Subscription is access to the services + packages of credit. Using a service takes a certain number of credits. When you run out of credits, the site will ask you to top up your profile to continue. For more detailed explanation email at [email protected].
You will pay more and more expensive credit in order to chat, read email or talk to the cheaters. They are satans and this site is a real hell for the innocences who need a seriously love to get married. I am one of their victim that had spent for about 21 million rupiah. How crazy i am for the satan of fake love
Dear Daniel, Thank you for the review. We deeply regret any misunderstanding and want to assure you that we are committed to resolving any issues you may encounter. Please be reminded that Our platform uses a method called Pay per Use. Pay per Use means that every operation would require a credit balance. As a result, you should refill your credit balance to continue interacting/Chatting with members once your membership credits ran out. All of this information was provided on the purchase form and is always available in the terms and conditions that you agreed to during registration.
You can always contact us at [email protected] for further clarifications.
Dr figueireido, are you still in the site, maybe only your chatters are working while you are having fun, I know where you are alone and afraid is time to say bye bye
Dear Rosita, Thank you for reaching out to us here, but I'm afraid you have put your message in a public review platform. If you wish to send a private goodbye message to one of your contacts, you may always access your profile in the website or app. Also, Is there any particular situation that made you conclude that members are fake? If you suspect one to be concerning specially one you mentioned asking for hearts, contact us at [email protected] with relevant details.
This is a big scam and you just waste your money. 80% of people are not real. You are talking to robots! And to people who are paid to keep you on this page. They say they don't have a community page. Do you believe this? If you want to invite them to another opportunity, nothing reaction. If someone really wants to talk to you, this wouldn't be a problem.
This is a big scam!
Hi Brigarszky, I am sorry to learn about your feeling towards the platform. Communication services in the app has to be paid using credits. I assure you that spending money on the site serves as your investment in connecting with people in a safe community. If you encounter any interaction that portrays wrongdoing that apparently made you conclude the platform as scam, Please contact us at [email protected]
They stole my money I thought that the price was 3.99 and it turned out to be $399 and when I asked for my money back they refused...he flat out said NO...now I'm stuck with fake profiles filled with employees that pretend to talk just to get the money spent...it's a Hoax...
Hi Katrina, Thank you for sharing this billing concern. I am sorry to learn that you have experienced this issue. I'm afraid we don't have any offer that costs 3.99 and the options are visible in the purchase for with full transparency. Due to privacy reasons, we unfortunately have limited access to your details in this platform, thus, I would highly suggest that you send us this concerns including the fake profiles to our email [email protected].
It seems all the guys want is to stay on the site but never a real relationship. I think some of the guys get paid to be on it.
Dear Riva, Thank you for sharing your thoughts about the site. I understand that our response came in a delayed manner which we are sincerely sorry for.
Do be reminded that we have an Anti-Scam policy that is strictly implemented to prevent wrongdoings such as misusing the communication services to be compensated in the platform. Please be it clear that such action is not at all tolerated. If one is proven to have breached any of the anti-scam policies, we assure members that all credits incurred in communicating to the accused member will be totally refunded given that the accused one/s is/are verified members.
Beware of this site! Seriously, they make it impossible to exchange any type of personal information with someone you might find interesting. They just want to suck money out you. Heartbreaking and dishonest site. People you want connect with is made impossible. Don't waste your time or money. I had to learn the hard way. 😡
Dear Charles, Thank you for sharing your insights. Please be informed that we provide our members the full freedom to have a much personal connection with their matches thus exchanging contact information is readily made available through video chat or Present delivery. If you need further assistance doing so, let us know and contact us at [email protected].
Multiple women from US, Ukraine, China who claim they want to meet you...only to drag conversations on and on that are costly. This group refuses (makes up excuses) not to provide contact info to other communications paths. One time I help up a note with a WhatsApp contact number and the video link was immediately broken by DateMyAge. The second group of scammers will give you contact info but they are scammers that will ask you for money via gift card or other untraceable means. One model claimed to be worth Billions and wanted to buy me a house...right?
Hi Del! Thank you for your review. We are sorry to learn that your recent endeavour in a much deeper connection didn't work. The app exists to connect members and eventually make them great matches thus we encourage members to as much as possible post presentable photos. As a matter of fact some members attend professional photo sessions, thus it's not strange to see beautiful ones. However, if some interactions feel suspicious, you are most welcome to check the Anti-scam policy and report it to us via the "Report" button on the chat window. We understand that Our app is not the cheapest, check what you get for it: anti-scam protection, constant updates, etc. Try an online chat instead of email unless you do not mean to send a 5000-character message every time. It costs 1 credit per message against 10 credits for 1 email and a reply comes in faster. For more info, email us at [email protected].
Many of the men are popular members, which means that they are able to use all apsects of the site for free. They get women in, starting online relationships, and get them to spend huge sums of money on credits to open letters and voice messages. I feel that these honey potters actually get some sort of remuneration from the site for doing this. This is apart from the fake profiles. Do not use this site at any cost. Unfortunatley, before I realized the situation, I fell for a guy, spent a lot of money and was even going to visit him…… until he got "cold feet". If using any dating site, and you form a good connection with someone, be wary if the person you are interested in does not wish to take the communication off the site after a few weeks.
Dear KM, Thank you for leaving us your review. We appreciate you going through the Terms and policy to better understand the platform. As a legitimate website we made such pieces of information clear and transparent in our Terms and Conditions. Indeed, there are few members in the platform who have qualified to be popular after thorough verification which includes passing through the profile, Activity and other checkings. Credits are required to communicate with members with such status. We also make it appoint that the anti-scam policy is strictly implemented along with some preventive measures like profile verification upon registration however, despite such attempts we wouldn't deny the fact that there are rare occasions that there are people that join with an opposite intention, thus we encourage members like you to immediately report such cases to us either by clicking on the "Report" button on their chat window or sending us email along with supporting documents at [email protected]. We'll be looking forward for your email.
They are partenered with few other sites, Amolatina,Travelmates and more.Cheapest package is 50 USD (R1000) for 150 credits,opening/writing an email,or photo 15 crds,you may for using an emoji,and per word. They squeeze money from everything they can. Some profiles seems fake (maybe bots) I can provide proof of payments and cost of everything.
Dear Forona, Thank you for checking on other sister dating sites affiliated with Datemyage. Indeed, they are under one umbrella of Communication platform that exists to provide premium ways to connect likeminded people. Each requires subscription and credits that serves an investments for members looking for quality communication services. Our app are not the lowest in price, but they are justified by the benefits you get like 24/7 support, Anti-scam policy, constant updates, etc. Having said so, we put utmost priority in providing a safe community thus if something seems suspicious to you, Please email us at [email protected]
This feels like a scam and all they want is money. I signed up yesterday for 19.99. I thought it was for a month. I got messages like crazy and could not read them all because it keeps adding me to purchase more credits.
The attached photo shows how much it charged me but in the site it said.62 USD.
The worst part is most of the messages I did read seemed computer generated. It did not feel like I was communicating with a person.
WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY!
Dear Tee,
Thank you for sharing your feelings towards our premium rates. Indeed, one has to subscribe to be able to use the communication services in our platform. It starts in a discounted rate of 19.99$ which you have mentioned and goes back to a standard rate to the upcoming subscription months. However, such package only provides you 150 credits which you can use to communicate with popular members. Each way of communicating such as chatting, video chat and etc costs a certain amount of credit and once you've entirely used up the said credits, you will need to top up for continuous use, And that is how the credit system works. One good thing is that, we provide you the full discretion on whether or not you would like to top up or just use your membership subscription alone within 30 days. We hope this clarifies your concern. If you need counseling on your expenditures, feel free to contact us at [email protected]
This page is full of bots. A bunch of fake pages are constantly asking you the stupidest questions so that you could spend credits in answering them. Everybody's page has written in English but when everybody messages you privately they all come in Spanish. Just because I said that I was bilingual. One of the red flags are that everybody from Europe, Asia and all over the world are texting me private in Spanish lol. Another one is how I been told that my page have been seen multiple times. So I was asked if I have more than one page or my identity got stolen. Maybe like 2 people that has ever text me there is a real person. The rest are all AI. That should get sued for false advertising. It's super expensive just so that I can be answering some stupid robots questions. I even threw a test at it and I put my Instagram there and nobody from the app has ever gone to my public Instagram page so, it comes to show that nobody that goes to that app is real and the few that do go get their identity stolen by AI so that they can continue their scam.
Dear Gia,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about the site. I understand that our response came in a delayed manner which we are sincerely sorry for.
Indeed, communication in the platform requires certain amount of credits. Do be reminded that we have an Anti-Scam policy that is strictly implemented to prevent wrongdoings such as misusing the communication services to be compensated in the platform. Please be it clear that that action is not at all tolerated. If one is proven to have breached any of the anti-scam policies, we assure members that all credits incurred in communicating to the accused member will be totally refunded given that the accused one/s is/are verified members.
My biggest surprise they are all top clearance, doctors, Ph. D, working for a little more, 24/7 hours per day, like in your chat room Mr Royer 66, is not fair you are eating with my money. Dr figuereido stop,
Dear Jose,
We appreciate you- taking time to leave us a review. I am very sorry to learn that we're not able to meet you expectations.
I would like to begin by giving you the full assurance that we don't condone any kind of wrongdoings in the platform, which is majorly the reason why Anti-scam policy and some preventive measures like Profile Verification are strictly in practice and a reason as well why our communication services come a bit expensive.
It is totally understood that you find some members suspicious over the fact that they have professional careers, We are definitely not invalidating your judgment as you are fully entitled to your own opinions, but please be informed that finding the one has no boundaries and we as a communication platform is an advocate of such. Members' profession cannot affirm to someone being a fraud or committing fraud, However, despite our best efforts, there is no such thing as a perfect community thus if any of the member made you suspicious particularly the one on your screenshots, Please don't hesitate to report us at [email protected] and submit the following:
• The Member ID of the user you're reporting
• The section number from the anti-scam policy that this member breached
• Date of when the breach happened
• If the breach happened on the site: specify which service you were using
• If the breach happened offsite: provide supportive material where the information can be located (ex: Social media Link, photos, etc)
Stay away. 90% fake profiles just to make money off you. Stay away! All these outstanding profiles that message you like there is no one in the world like you. But they are all fake! You can't even localize your search. The most ridiculous dating app.
Hi Laney, Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am sorry to hear that you developed some doubts about the authenticity of our services. I want to assure you that we are a legitimate site and we do not condone catfishing or any other form of fraud.
Did something happen? Is there any particular situation that made you conclude such thought about the platform? I am certain we'll be able to help you resolve this if you clarify your experience with us.
However, If you do not want to worry about the legitimacy of the members, limit your communication to Verified accounts and if you suspect one to be concerning, contact us at [email protected].
I'm seeing by the reviews that this isn't a very good app to use. That said, I can see why they're so desperate to keep bothering a married woman with their ads three times a day!
Dear Shawna,
Thank you for sharing your concerns. I am sorry if you felt bother by the adverts, such could happen depending on your recent search interests in your browser and I'm afraid we don't have full control to that. However, you can change such algorithm by changing your interests or looking into your browsers' recommended advert settings. You can contact your browser's support fort assistance on that.
I sign up in November and I spent about $1000 dollars in few months talking to fake people,they take away money from your credits even if you don't use them, and when you called customer service they don't do anything for you, the worst scam I have ever seen, stay away please 🙏
Dear Rosario,
Thank you for sharing this concern. We deeply regret any misunderstanding and want to assure you that we are committed to resolving any issues you may encounter.
Please note that the credits you have acquired from subscription renewal will expire in case you didn't use them within 30 days.
Remaining credits from a refill like that of 160 credit package will be usable for 90 days from the day of purchase. All of this information was provided on the purchase form and is always available in the terms and conditions particularly on Section 11 entitle miscellaneous that you agreed to during registration.
They get you to join t heir vip membership but you have to pay for every thing still. You have to pay to videochat chat email or even chatting costs more. So you getting nothing in becoming vip member
Dear Samir, Thank you for the review. We deeply regret any misunderstanding the Credit system. Please be reminded that one has to subscribe whether you are a VIP or not to be able to use the premium communication services. Pay per Use means that every operation would require a credit balance. As a result, you should refill your credit balance to continue interacting/Chatting with members once your membership credits ran out. All of this information was provided on the purchase form and is always available in the terms and conditions that you agreed to during registration.
You can always contact us at [email protected] for further clarifications.
Signed up for the $19.99 membership and within 48 hours they hacked my back account over $1,200. Worst site ever and even the "people" you chat with seem to be a part of the hoax.
DO NOT SIGN UP FOR THIS SITE!
Dear Michelle, Thank you for sharing your feelings towards our premium rates. Indeed, one has to subscribe to be able to use the communication services in our platform. It starts in a discounted rate of 19.99$ which you have mentioned and goes back to a standard rate to the upcoming subscription months. However, such package only provides you 150 credits which you can use to communicate with popular members. Each way of communicating such as chatting, video chat and etc costs a certain amount of credit and once you've entirely used up the said credits, you will need to top up for continuous use, And that is how the credit system works. One good thing is that, we provide you the full discretion on whether or not you would like to top up or just use your membership subscription alone within 30 days.
As membership is agreed to automatically renew every month, it is also stated clearly in the purchase form that you can always contact us to cancel it and we'll do as per your request. We hope this clarifies your concern. If you need counseling on your expenditures, feel free to contact us at [email protected]
Answer: It seems they are hiring professional chatters that are commission base paid. I am reporting them to FBI
Answer: They charge for everything, and the person I was having the conversation with, would not want to exchange anything that would allow to continue a different way of communicating such as what usually happens after feeling comfortable,texting,phone conversation,ECT.,she is only looking out for this site
Answer: Because it is a scam. Some profiles are online 24 hrs.a day. Others list gifts they want. Some gaul. May even be AI generated scam.
Answer: That is the Scam the get paid the more credits they can get you to buy. The entire site is a scam I promise don't waste your money. Dating.com is their other site and it's the same. It's sad all the scammers out there.
Answer: No they only will give you the very minimum info on them and they just keep sending you emails that cost the most to read and send. Their job is to get you to buy credits and they say all the right things to keep you interested.
Answer: They never give refunds it's a scam site the people you talk to are employees the more money you spend the better money they make
Answer: From my experience as a paying member over 15 months, I learned that the most important thing is to check how the platform verifies identity in practice not just in policy. Here’s what I recommend other users do before investing time or money: 1. Ask directly for a video call early A genuine person will usually agree to a quick call, even a short one. If video calls are always avoided but emotional conversations continue and that’s a red flag. 2. Check the profile ID across platforms If the same member appears on multiple affiliated sites with the same photos, bio, and ID, it may suggest profile replication across a shared database. That doesn’t automatically mean they’re fake but it does mean the platform should clearly explain how profiles are created and verified. Remember, real people are not afraid of basic transparency Even a 2-minute call or voice message often reveals everything.
Answer: Hi David, When it comes to dating and relationships, personal preferences vary widely, and they're influenced by individual experiences, interests, and values rather than broad generalizations based on nationality or background. People from all over the world, including Europe and the U.S., form meaningful connections with individuals from diverse cultures and backgrounds, including Nigerian men. At the end of the day, attraction is based on personality, shared values, and mutual respect. While some may have certain preferences, others might be more focused on qualities like kindness, intelligence, sense of humor, and life goals. It's important not to get discouraged by stereotypes—authentic connections are built on getting to know each other beyond nationalities and appearances. If you're interested in dating someone from a different background, it's always best to engage openly and honestly and to find common ground.
Answer: Hi Anthony, Cancellation can be done through your profile settings >>> Manage Account >>> Cancel Subscription. Or, You can reach DateMyAge customer support through the following methods: Phone (U.S. Toll-Free): +1 (800) 291-5025 *Note: Support availability may vary. Email: [email protected] *For cancellation requests, include your account details and specify your request clearly.
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Dear Susanne, Thank you for your feedback. I am sorry to hear that you developed some doubts about the authenticity of our services over the fact that some messages are too good to be true. We definitely respect you insight on that. Most members send such messages basically to win your attention, specially that such a platform exists for members looking for their person and they know that there are large array of options for you. They must have been making some moves. However, if some interactions feel suspicious, you are most welcome to check the Anti-scam policy if they have breached any and report it to us via the "Report a violation" button on the chat window.