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ChristianCafe.com has a rating of 3.1 stars from 126 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. ChristianCafe.com ranks 33rd among Dating sites.
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I started talking with a guy on there. His user name was allinhilarity. That name should have been a clue but I give the benefit of the doubt. He was a racist and just wanted to talk about sex and try to get nudes. For any woman that reads this he will make you think he is a good guy but he is extremely racist and doesn't actually like women he just makes fun of them. Christian cafe of course will not care if you report him. I just hope an innocent woman doesn't get sucked into his games.
Stay away from.this scam.site!
I paid for a subscription and after two days they deleted me!
About 90% are fakes and scammers on Christian Cafe.
I hardly ever write reviews but I feel strongly writing about Christian Cafe so that people are warned NOT to join so they don't get scammed and lose their money and don't waste their time with CC.
I tried this site out a couple years ago, hoping to find a young American Christian lady (I live in Ohio), but most of my results were from China, Africa and the Middle East. I'm not racist or anything, but why are there no American ladies on here?!
While profiles can be a bit verbose, it's an easy site to navigate and view potential suitors. I wish for two options:
1) To not view those you've viewed before.
2) To not view those who haven't filled out their profile.
A possible third would be to not view those without a picture.
Just sayin'.
I just joined this site and had 10 free days on here. I wrote to over 100 girls on here and never got a single reply. I'm not a bad-looking mixed guy and don't have this problem on a foreign dating site or Ukrainian dating site. When I'm on foreign dating sites. It doesn't seem very hard to get a reply. White girls are so picky I can tell... Especially I can understand why so many Ukrainian girls take their American guys away from them. I would recommend finding a foreign woman over an American girl because the only thing American white girls can do is look down at a black man and always ignore. I was expecting women on this site to be more adult than on sites like Tinder, OkCupid, or Plenty of Fish but all these white girls on these sites are too childish compared to superior women like Ukrainian and Russian women. Russian women and Ukrainian women don't make conclusions based on skin color and stupid photos. After this experience on this site... I forget about American women and just go for a Ukrainian woman. Thank you.
I live in the lower mainland of British Columbia, Canada. There are about 5 or 6 men within 85 kilometers of me within my age range that are in Canada. I emailed the company to say that it wasn't worth it for the 5 or 6 men that I have reached out to and never responded/acknowledged that I sent them a note, but they insist that there are tons of men suitable for me on this app. I don't want to "date" a man in Haiti or France. Thanks very much. It's a waste of money if you're in BC Canada.
Then you have the forums which is no shortage of "Christians" laying out judgement about all sorts of people in different situations (ie divorce etc).
It is sad that this dating site doesn't have more reviews. I love the site, because it is a true Christian dating site. I just think there are very few Christians willing to go on a dating site. Yet, you will find all kinds of "carnal" Christians on POF or Match. Why someone would call themselves a Christian, if it didn't matter to them, is a mystery to me?
It is the same situation for me in that there are very few Christian men from my state (Washington), in my age range (50-55) on there which makes it that much harder. I'm a firm believer that if it's meant to be, it will be.
Ever since my review, I have been getting creepy calls late night from people who insisted they spoke to me on whatsapp. I find it funny that it happened right after my review. The phone numbers are reflecting from a toll free number in the US. 855 and Michigan and Oregon. I will come back for an update after I speak to Christian Cafe themselves
I did get a free trial to check out this Christian dating site. As a Christian living in India, we are a minority and we tend to look for Christian sources outside India to turn to. This site was not just a site to find a partner but it was also to interact with other Christians. It started out great. I started out with writing on Forums, explaining my situation about living in India and finding Christians. I mentioned that God is in control and sought help and advice from other Christians and it was working out great until...
One fine day, I was stumbling on the Forums and found a lady in Africa with a similar situation like mine. I saw a mean reply comment on her Forum post saying, " Why can't you find people in your own country?"
I immediately went to her defence and posted, " I am in the same situation. We don't have enough Indians to date here."
I went around with my Forums, and few days later my Forum Post came under blast by "jtex406". He quoted my statement, " God is in control", and argued with it, saying, " God is not in control. You are in control". I told him if God is not control, who created Adam and Eve and if he was not in control, why did he banish Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden when they disobeyed him?
He then changed his tune saying God is in control and pushed an article link on me which was written by Christian people, but it wasn't Biblically based, but it was the views of other Christian leaders which I refused to read.
I called him out for bullying with the quoting and misquoting of my statement. He gathered all his White Christian friends against me on that post. I told them if this was their way of bullying a little Indian, let me remind you of how Goliath was slayed. I also requested not to show the article to me because I wanted some verses of the Bible.
I flagged his behaviour and wrote to Customer Service and they said he has a right to post it and sent me a link that he could do so. I sent them a screenshot of the post guidelines where he cannot debate someone's beliefs. That's what he was doing to me. Thinking back to the previous post about the African lady finding a foriegn man and how she was told to find men in her own town, I saw this as another way of attacking colored women and I addressed that. Instead of an apology, I got a defense statement."Watch your judgement". I told them it wasn't a judgement, it was feedback.
Hello, I want to just add that i met my fianec3 years ago here and we have been together since. We both met each other on the free trial and now we are getting married by next week. We are very happy and encourage others to keep the faith and stay positive in Jesus name.
This site pretends to highlight christian singles but I don't think any of the women on it are! They don't have any more character than non believing women! Also if you don't live in a city of 4 million or more there won't be anyone on this site from your area! This site is a joke!
Even though attempts to meet a friend of faith, or interest to date like minded faith based believers
I find that there is very little interaction or response to my invitation to communicate.
Either people have a preference, based on distance, age or more.
I understand some members may be out of reach but really no interest or even replies? Or even block someone because they shown interest - that's shallow not spiritual!
That make me a bit skeptical about this. I don't think many are open to opportunities and are not serious or diligent in their search.
It was easy for you to charge my payment. But like I knew even the Christians on the site are full of games and want a perfect person when in reality only Jesus is perfect. I am happy with my life God knows my purpose in life and is not for me to be playing the game of dating sites.
Thank you and much success.
It was easy for you to charge my payment.
Joined 3 other dating sites that were much better. In 6 months only had <5 contacts at all appropriate vis-a-vis age, location, ethnicity..
Have received no replies after giving numerous winks and some messages ihave received return mail from one member as he is a minister and I had questions. His answers were wonderful for me this is the kind of Godly man I would like to meet.
Have received no replies after giving numerous winks and some messages
THERE IS A LARGE NUMBER OF PEOPLE ON CHRISTIAN CAFE, THEY DO NOT HAVE A PICTURE OF THEM. SO IF I CAN DO THE SAME AND NOT HAVE A PICTURE, THAT WILL BE GREAT
No one is near me or answers mail despite distance. Recommended matches are ridiculous. No commonality whatsoever.
There are dozens of matches in your search, however you have barely viewed any of them. Additionally, you haven't sent much mail, so there are definitely things you can do to improve your chances of connecting with others.
It's important to stay active on the site and not just 'sit and wait' - everyone is waiting to receive mail, so no one will be surprised if you write first:)
Run your search or your quickmatch to find many matches to introduce yourself to: https://www.christiancafe.com/search/
Set yourself a goal to write many new people each week. The more people you write and the sooner you respond to mail you've received, the higher your chances for success.
Be sure as well to check out the forums to engage in great discussions with other members: https://www.christiancafe.com/forums
Very good women but most so far away- it's frustrating!
Easy enough to subscribe and price is right
Very, Very Small number of prospective women meeting my criteria of age and location.
From the business
ChristianCafe.com is a leading online dating service that specializes in connecting Christian singles seeking for long-term relationships. Found in 1999, so it can be said to be one of the earlier Christian dating site exclusive for Christian daters. It is a Christian religious organization and ministry serving a Christian market, based on Biblical beliefs and teachings.
Christian singles visitors can connect with others as soon as they create a simple profile, after responding to several multiple-choice questions, as well as written questions. By creating a profile, the user receives a generous 10 day FREE trial period (7 days for joining, 3 more for posting photos), where they have the opportunity to participate at no cost to them for the full 10 days.
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We see you've begun to reach out to some members, and have replied to those who have written to you. Not all men will respond or will respond favourably, but some will, so it's important to keep doing what you're doing: introduce yourself to many each week who interest you.
You can find matches via your search or quickmatch: https://www.christiancafe.com/search/quickmatch/
Check out the forums too: https://www.christiancafe.com/forums to involve yourself in discussions and fellowship with other members.
That's great someone at your church met the love of their life on ChristianCafe.com. You know the site works, so now it's time to invest in your future by staying active on the site. There's someone out there - he just hasn't yet met you :)