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ChnLove has a rating of 3.2 stars from 618 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with ChnLove most frequently mention beautiful ladies, customer service and live chat. ChnLove ranks 8th among International Dating sites.
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I believe that the Chinese woman is one of the most beautiful women in the world both on the inside and outside. That’s why I search on Chnlove.com. I found that some people have extremely negative feelings and attitudes towards this website, but I do not. That’s because I don’t believe they can make general statements about a whole group of ladies. I do not like some guys talk or point fingers on others. I think everyone should use the common sense to assess the opportunities and risks on the website.
I just want to say thank you for all the support. You guys really do a great job in the matchmaking market! I would like to let all know that I have found my future wife via this site. And if all goes well, we will be getting married next month. This is a wonderful site, and there are many, many, many wonderful women! Now my sweet heart is sitting beside me when I am sharing my thoughts on this authorized review site, to express my thanks to Chnlove. I am happy to say I found mine! Hey man, come on! Keep going!
I must say that I got the best response and help from Chnlove Customer Care. They did not patronize me by blaming me or the lady for the problem I met. The Customer Service of other site was always polite as well, but I found that they sometimes just gave lip service to real service and action. All my friends think I am crazy for staying with Chnlove, but I believe my choice, and I believe the professional service of Chnlove.
Unlike other people who complained a lot here, I hold a neutral attitude towards Chnlove. It is a nice website since it brings so many beautiful oriental beauties of different kinds to us, but meanwhile it also has its flaws. The services cost too much and it is disallowed to directly exchange contact information. However, I do get fun on it, for chatting with the ladies killed my loneliness in my spare time.
I love Chnlove dating site and I'm very serious to find my true love and Lovely bride. Everyone there is always so kind and helpful... I love the dating site and wonderful customer care and service! Even I just have a little concern, I will get quick and timely responses. From their reply, I learn that it is better to clarify the issue before drawing a conclusion. I have to say the organization is very professional.
Last week I had a date with a lady from Shenzhen. She was beautiful and classy, but what I really want to comment was the translator from the agency for being so professional and friendly, making my discussion with the lady smooth and very relaxing. Her assistance also boosts my confidence in dating Chinese ladies online.
Knowing full well that Chnlove was a scam l thought l would have some fun. I set up a profile and photo, all fake like the sites, and then sat back and waited.
You get 3 free chats of very limited time, and while these were there I had endless chat requests, and I mean so many at same time its not possible to chat even if you wanted to, and dozens upon dozens of admirer mails. I used up the free chats, and since then, nothing, no admirer mail, no chat requests when I go online.
As part of my fun, I noted the profiles of some women, and then went online at different times of the day, and no surprise here, they were online every time. If these women were real with real jobs, and they slept, how can they be there all the time?
Dont let chnlove, or their affiliates, rip you off, they are a scam, they will rob you blind. Any site that wont allow you to exchange email addresses is a scam. There are some sites out there that allow you to do this, and these generally are the ones that charge by the month not by the minute.
Forewarned is forearmed.
Some people here are talking about scams. There are no doubting these people expect all the things are free for them. They wish there’s a dating site working for nothing, just stupidly helping them find their Chinese wife for free. It’s ridiculous. Actually, I tried some free dating site, but the lady there seldom gave me a reply. So boring.
None of us can vow to be perfect, as well as Chnlove. I do not think the site is a scam. I think it’s just not perfect for everyone. I am still on it because I like to browse different kinds of oriental beauties and it caters to my needs!
I came to Chnlove with no expectations, but I am now overwhelmed by the success. I began talking with my lady back in October 2014 and as things progressed we began to use the translation service for the love calls. During these calls we spoke through the same translator each time. The translator was excellent and was able to not only translate the words, but also the feeling and humour too. Later when I visited China, we hired the same translator from the agency and I think she has played a major role in our relationship. She was the most polite and charming person and remained a true professional at all times, even in the frustrating times - giving my poor Chinese and poor grasp of the Chinese culture a great help. She assisted us to communicate very effectively. I have to say that she provided the most excellent service as a translator. Thank you so much!
All the ladies I talked on Chnlove.com are very beautiful. I dream to find my love with a beautiful Chinese lady. I might feel unrealistic if my dream can come true, as I know some of the ladies are just playing games with me. But I still have a hope of success, I believe some divorced ladies are very sincere to find a soul mate here like me. I will take my time and wait for the one
Man only likes to count his troubles, but he does not count his joys. So that’s why so many man come here to write negative comments of Chnlove. To be fair, I really enjoy the time with the ladies on the site. Read the sweet words from the beautiful ladies is one of the best things in my daily life. Of course, it costs me a lot, but it’s worth it because it killed my loneliness.
I found my love on Chnlove and got married. We are living together in my country now and waiting for her sons to come. I have changed my profile status on Chnlove and I would like to post one of my wedding picture on the site later. I’m here just to encourage others not to give up. I came very close of giving up just before I met my wife and found each other.
I have been on Chlove for a good length of time and it is very very expensive I had been writing to two women but it just seems to go on and on same old restrict one person said she has written two letters to my address but after one month nothing. Your company has not got a good name and I am beginning to have my doubts also. You do not allow people to exchange addresses and contact details unless I have to call at a very expensive rate.
I have been a member of Chnlove.com for so many years in search of a nice lady to marry. My feeling towards this dating giant is not bad, but still not good enough. The good thing is there are so many beautiful ladies of different kinds to browse for free, but the services to communicate with them cost too much, and it is not allowed to exchange contact information. Hope there will be an improvement.
We can never be too cautious of this world's solicitations, but must allow the spirit to guide us if we're to find the unconditional love God has designed for all of us. I have to admit that I have fallen in love with a Chinese woman I met on ChnLove, she is a lady to me. Although there are negative comments about the site, I believe her heart to be pure. The experience has given us both a chance in life we never had before, I hope to spend the rest of our lives together in the design of God's Love.
-A total scam, stay away from this site. They are very, very expensive and don't allow to directly contact a girl without more money.
-The girls will tell you that they signed a contract that doesn't allow them to be contacted outside of the agency-one girl even went so far as CHNLOVE would get her fired from her job if she corresponds outside of this site directly!
-The agency will block any attempt to send any direct contact information!
-If you click on a girls picture that is requesting to chat, you will find that about of the girls ARENT even online!
-Any profile that hasnt been refreshed in 3 months is probably a fake!
-If they have an age; limit of 18-70 theyre probably fake!
-Notice how the positive reviews are very vague and short!
-I usually get 8-10 admirer letters per day 99.9% of those get deleted because they are either copy and paste letters (Ive gotten as many as four the exact same letter from the same girl), or the girl is young enough to be my daughter!
-I changed my profile to read, and I quote, PLEASE read my entire profile! I get dozens of 'copy and paste 'letters a day that I'd like to know from serious members and not just players or scammers. I delete 99.9% because they are fake. A word of advice, respond to the profile directly if your real and want a responsible husband. I am an alcoholic and I have been convicted of spousal abuse and 2nd degree murder. I want to see who is real? I still get 8-10 letter a day.
-Its amazing how many of the girls were cheated on by their exs,, they had to cheat with someone-other women?
-Ask them to send a photo of them with a paper showing your name printed on it-they wont with some excuse about agency rules, yes a TOTAL scam and, money pit for you. STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE!
-I add this observation about the review, there never any long reviews of the 5-star reviews. They are very vague, no details and usually only 3 or 4 sentences. Guys wake up and look at the evidence, if it quacks like a duck...
-Don't trust me saying this, try it out for yourself! This site is totally devoted to severing you from your money. IT IS A TOTAL, TOTAL SCAM!
I joined three and a half weeks ago, and so far got over 600 admirer emails. I soon realized that many are scammers, from the typical signs: they offer me sex, money and love that lasts forever, and they appear to require nothing for themselves. Too good to be true. But a few of them seemed to be serious women.
I have changed my mind today. The women who seemed serious are also scammers. I got two EMF emails from two different women today, with this following content.
WOMAN 1 wrote this:
"On my way back, i nearly hit a cat, very dangerious. She is very cute, but very very thin. I took her back and give her some food and water, seems better now. I feel very happy. She is like a baby need my protection. In fact, i can understand that feeling.It makes me think of myself, althrough i am a strong woman, independent, but i can't deny that i need your protection and warm hugs. I feel that I just want to be a gentle and soft woman infront of you."
WOMAN 2 wrote this:
"on my way back today, i nearly hit a cat, very dangerious. She is very cute, but very very thin. I took her back and give her some food and water, seems better now. I feel very happy. She is like a baby need my protection. In fact, i can understand that feeling.It makes me think of myself, althrough i am a strong woman, independent, but i can't deny that i need your protection and warm hugs. I feel that I just want to be a gentle and soft woman infront of you. Same like this cute cat, she is now sleeping one my leg, smile."
Exactly the same words and spelling errors! The second woman just added a sentence at the end. Obviously, they are copying text from a common data base. After this first paragraph, the two emails have four other paragraphs that are also identical between the two senders.
How sad! It confirmed my worst fears. Real women do not sign up to ChnLove. All these gorgeous models are just a bunch of scammers who copy pre-written texts from a joint data base!
Stay away, stay away and stay away!
The service that ChnLove provides is in many cases the future for many people from all countries. I have been with ChnLove since 2010. There have been many ups and a few downs in the years when I communicated with my sweet love. I always trust my instincts, so I think the site give me the hope and opportunity to find my happiness. Yeah I sound confident, but when you are looking for the "love of your life", confidence is the key. It is the commitment and it is your drive!
Some of the girls are real and I met when I visited China, but I also had my heart-broken. In most cases, you are talking to someone at a dating service and the girls have no idea what the dating agency is replying to you.
A better site is ChinaLoveCupid for meeting Chinese women. I met my wife there. She also was on Chnlove but scammed out of about $4K.
If you insist on using this site, you can quickly find out if the girls are real.
Clue #1, if in the first few days of contact they do not exchange, their personal email or qq number (cool chat service in china) then they are FAKE,
Clue #2, if you do not video chat with them on qq and skype, be sure to get many photos and check the date the photo was taken by opening up properties and details. I have met several girls who looked nothing like their photos. Sometimes, the photos are old, photoshopped, and in one case the girl wore a wig, fake breasts, and fake teeth for her photoshoot.
Clue #3, if the girls are in their 20s and are interested in men 40-70, they are definitely FAKE. You can tell in many cases from the age range that is specified. Also, the older the woman, the more likely she is real. Do you think a really hot young girl needs to use a dating service, especially to find a man 20 years older? Use some common sense.
Anyway, Chinese woman are great, and my wife makes me happy every day, so happy hunting in finding your soul-mate.
Answer: The biggest scam ever. Stay away.
Answer: A lady I wanted to date claimed she was single but I found out she lied after a little research on her. I wrote a letter of my findings to the site admin and they erased her profile subsequently. Speaking from experience, I think it's better to find women who are of similar age and interest because there will be a greater chance of having a successful relationship. Sexy, beautiful and young girls have higher expectation and make breakneck demands on their partners, which makes it hard to be hooked up with them for long.
Answer: Hi guys. I have post a comment "scam, scam, scam. " I have not further proof this is a scam. I meet two ladies from this site recently in China. I show them the letters I sent them which is written in Chinese, 70% of the letter I sent they have not been given to by the agency. And same with the letters that supposed to be sent by them, they have no knowledge of these sent mails. They did not write them. While you guys thinking you are talking to some nice ladies in china, you are actually talking to a male? An old grandma? Hey, you know how phone sex work. These people is scaming both us guys and the girls over there. Beware.
Answer: I found a lady 12 years ago and when she came to US after a couple years my family was telling me she married me for my money and was going to divorce me after her Green Card. Today we have been married 10 years and she was a wealthy Chinese College Professor who spoke good English. Today she makes more money than I do as a Regional Manager of several Panda Expresses and we have a great relationship. She is happy because her Chinese husband cheated on her and she only wanted a man to love and cherish her for who she was... Yes, 10 years marriage now.
Answer: Scam, as is this review itself. This is a review setup intentionally for receiving good reviews. You should read this review, 100% independent. www.datingbusters.com/is-chnlove-com-a-scam-or-a-legit-way-to-meet-asian-women/
Answer: This is a scam site, and an expensive one at that! You will never get A girlfriend or wife here, just heartbreak and spend spend spend With no chance ever of really getting the girls contact info. Run for your life!
Answer: One thing you can do that doesn't cost too much is also to tell the lady you want to call her, tell her you want to only get her phone number... nothing else... tell her it costs too much to talk on the Chn phone line... Get her number, then call her back. It only takes a couple minutes to do that. If the lady doesn't want to give you her phone number... something may be wrong.
Answer: I do not think it has gone bust yet. But as the site is a total FRAUD it should do.
Launched in 1998, Chnlove.com is a member site of Qpid Network, and now one of the leading and most trusted international dating sites dedicated to helping western men find their ideal match in China. Through its strong collaboration with local dating agencies in China, Chnlove continues to attract thousands of sincere single gentlemen every day, and achieves an amazingly high success rate among sites alike.
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Dear Kenneth,
Firstly, thanks for your trust and time to share your concern with us.
We are thankful that you could render your precious comment and feedback to our services. In reference to your comment about two EMF emails from two different women, we notice that you already contacted our customer care team for assistance, not sure if you still have concerns? If so, please feel free to contact Customer Care Team. We’ll be glad to help you.
In reference to the EMF mails, Chnlove requires the affiliated agencies to follow a strict procedure when translating and forwarding the EMF mails, Chnlove always puts safety and honesty above all else while running business toward our goals, if you have any suspicion towards the mails, please feel free to contact our customer care team.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life.
Best regards,
ChnLove CS Team