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ChnLove has a rating of 3.2 stars from 618 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with ChnLove most frequently mention beautiful ladies, customer service and live chat. ChnLove ranks 8th among International Dating sites.
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I have been using Chnlove for 4 years and there is a clear pattern when communicating with ladies on Chnlove. Try criticising Chnlove or their agency to your lady and see what response you get from them. They will defend their agency and tell you how wonderful their agency and Chnlove are.
Try convincing them to use your private email address to communicate with them and see what their response is. They will tell you they could not use your private email or the email address did not work.
My email address is used by people all over the world daily without any problems but no Chnlove woman has used my private email address to communicate with me. Please ask yourself why?
I believe like I have read on this website that the women have a contract with Chnlove to attract men and keep them using Chnlove to communicate with them. Another explanation is they work for the agency or Chnlove and are not who they say they are.
Tell the woman to ring you on your private telephone number and they will tell you the telephone number did not work or the number was incorrect. My telephone number works for everyone else in the world.
But they will tell you how wonderful you are, how much they miss you and want to be with you but expect them to make time to visit you in your country and they will tell you they do not have time. The women will tell you they will come and then postpone their trip due to a sick daughter, mother, or father. Here seem t be a lot of sick relatives in China. They will write to you for a year but cancel their trip because their family do not want them to go to your country. If their family were not happy with them moving to your country they should not be on Chnlove.
The bottom line is Chnlove women are not sincere and possibly are working for Chnlove or their agencies.
The women are certified as correct identities but who checks Chnlove or their agencies are truly checking the women documents. Money matters to Chnlove not sincere service or fair charges. Money matters! The truth does not.
I have been using Chnlove for years. I know they are working with independent agents in China. To be frank, I have met an agent far from satisfactory, but most of their agents are sincere and excellent. I believe that Chnlove will keep an eye on what their agents are doing in order not to give the company a bad reputation. So far, I’m doing well on Chnlove.
I recommended 2 of my friends to join Chnlove cause I think the site is wonderful. The chatting service allows to have an instant communication with these Chinese beauties. Better than spending all night to hunt girls in bar!
I am happy that the customer-service staff of Chnlove is always understanding and willing to help. They really did a good job. I had a problem with two ladies on the site a week ago. They helped me a lot to make all the things clear and I forgave the ladies totally. We are all human and it seems very touchy in matters of the heart. I feel badly for having caused some hurt to the ladies by improper words and action. I do not want to hurt anyone, not my nature. Fortunately, the site helped us start trusting again.
I have contested the money I spent supposedly talking to a Chinese woman. She may have been real, but is working for the company in some form, if not directly. She supplied information that I had not given her, but was in the application. The only way she would have had that information is if she had access to my file. My credit card company is in the process of checking out my claim, but since all if this has happened, my 6 daily admirer emails have stopped, which tells me they were generated by the company, and now the company refuses to honor their contract. They had offered to refund my remaining credits when they realized that I wasn't going away, but I refused, demanding all of the money returned that I was scammed out of. If you look at all of the positive reviews on this site, you will notice several things. One is that if you click on the reviewer, you will see that he usually has several reviews, and that they are normally Walmart, or Staples or business like that, and then the last one is a thumbs up for Chnlove.com. They are almost always all reviewed the same day, because they are too lazy to spread out the reviews. Also, if you see one positive review that day, you will generally find a second and third positive review, and they will all follow these same steps. Once they read this, they will probably change their style so that they can continue to post fake positive reviews, and continue to scam men out of their money. I would hope that SiteJabber will investigate this fraud on their site, and delete the phony profiles. Some of these profiles even supply photos from Chnlove.com. Not very smart of them. If this saves even one person from being scammed from these low lifes, my time here is justified. After posting this, I realized that it replaced my original, shortened review from 7/26/2015. I just wanted to make it clear that this is not my original review, but one written 8/30/2015
There is no other "opinion" here. The sites and all the sites in their network are pure scams. Any site that uses an "agency" to review correspondence, as just one example, isn't a legit dating service. They charge you to send letters, they charge you to read the reply; and of course the lady sends you "her" photos in her every reply (viewing those costs extra too). I can go on and on posting the many irregularities and non sequitor instances that prove just how dark of a scam artist this company is... however, at this point, you've been warned repeatedly that the pan is hot. If you get burned touching it. That's on you.
The pages and services on Chnlove changed a lot these years, but one thing remain unchanged. Their ladies are always the most beautiful in the world. I really enjoy chatting with many lovely ladies on the site. Next month, I will have a business trip to China, I’m thinking if I can bring back a Chinese wife. Whatever the outcome, surfing the site is a funny thing to me.
I read some comments about Chnlove here, and found that people had different experience on the site. Some people said the site was a scam, and some people enjoyed the time on the site very well. I have been a member of the site for about a year. It seems to me that the site is not bad. I understand due to different considerations, people may hold different views on the same issue. But I think those people who left bad comments should stand back and look objectively at the site.
I really grateful for the service. I think this site is number one. But, the price should be cheaper frankly. That way, more people will be able to use the fantastic service to find his wife.
The CS team of this site is like a Mother to me and I really appreciate it. I think these ladies should join this site so I can visit them and write. LOL. If this works out I may be living in Ukraine soon. XOXO
I really like Chnlove, the wonderful dating site. The customer service staff there is always so helpful and always so willing to answer my questions. I'm so glad I have found such a warm site and really appreciate the quality customer skills provided. I just wanna stay here and enjoy the time with their lovely ladies.
I want to express my warmest thank you for Chnlove. It brings my life lady to me. She is an absolute darling for me, we match each other perfectly. We have been communicating for quite some time now. The services of the site helps us a lot. Although my lady speaks almost no English, we could fully understand each other with the help of our translator. I’m glad that there’s meeting service on the site, so next month when I come to Qingdao, the translator can assist us as well.
I read some forums and noticed some people put bad comments on Chnlove. So at the beginning, I made a cautious start on the site. I doubted my lady and really hurt her feeling. Finally, I found the lady is real but it’s too late. I messed up all the things because I did not trust myself, and I did not trust the site. I regret my unconsidered words to my lady. If there is any scam, I think I did not pick up, but I lose my lady because of my uncertainty.
I have been on the site many times. I was suspicious from the first, primarily because of the consistency of the stories and the fact that I found several of the ladies on other sites, sometimes adult sites. My thoughts were confirmed when I carried on a correspondence via private email (addresses were exchanged by means I will not reveal but have worked several times) with a lady that is one of the people hired to answer letters from men. This lady was the correspondent for 10 of the models represented on the site. She was hired because of her facility with English and her ability to keep her stories straight. She also wrote many of the personal descriptions used. The lady told me, and provided evidence to back up her claim, that virtually all the girls shown in the highest level of representation were second or third tier professional models. They have no direct contact with men looking for ladies and did not want any contact. The first and most direct indication of false represntation is on the seeking men bar. Guys- 20 year old women HAVE NO INTEREST IN 50-70 YEAR OLD MEN!. It is true in Asia and as it is true everywhere else. If you are rich, your best bet is to go to your country of choice and BUY a 20 year old for a year or so. Believe me, there are plenty of ladies that will engage your fantasies for enough money in all of the countries. But they are not on the site- period. I have since been in contact with several other hired ladies that write for CHN- most in China but also in VN and the PI. Do not waste your money on this site. Use it for amusement as I do but do not buy credits and especially do not assume you are going to find the love of your life. Just as a side note, I had an affair with a lady from Shanghai. She was (and is still) beautiful and sexy- as well as being the most self absorbed, venal, shallow and materialistic person I have ever known. One sample does not make a judgement, but I have many friends who go to China on business regularly and their experiences with Chinese women are much the same as mine. You have been warned
I had done a facebook group " Qpid scam", please joint us, more we will be more we have chance to put them in prison, to close this dating scam website and his family website, and to make our money back, my uncle is a major officer at Interpol, i will give him our list of complaint
Stronger together, joint us on face book " Qpid scam"
After almost two years and dating numerous women I could write a book giving examples of the experiences I've had with these gorgeous, but insincere women.
The main reason is no doubt money that drives these women to date, flirt, and say all of the things that you would like to hear.
I'm sure they are looking for Mr. Right but in the meantime they will do what ever is needed to keep you chatting with them and writing letters, which if you haven't noticed yet is a great way to spend a great deal of money.
They all have pushed me to make a personal phone call, even if I have only known them a few days, and a phone call sure can burn up some money fast.
I dated a lady from the UK for nine months who turned out to be a fraud. She had another website and I happened to stumble on it after nine months were I found her using a slightly different name but with all of the same photos she had sent me, over a 100, during the nine months we dated.
I wrote to the site explaining this and their reply was... they will look into it and contact the agency involved.
Of course she denied having another site, where she had a boyfriend and lived in a different country.
I dated one lady in China for months who had beautiful profile photos, who would never send me real life photos. Now why would a lady who says she wants to jump into bed with me not want to send me a photo?
I wrote to a lady in Columbia who actually sounded sincere and gave real life photos, but then the tone of her letter suddenly changed, did not sound like her at all.
I wrote back saying I did not want to talk with any agency employee and I never heard from her again. Duh, kinda proves what I was thinking!
You got to ask yourself, if this is a dating site to find a mate, why after months of dating are you still not allowed to pass personal info to be able to move forward to an actual personal meeting.
I tried to convince a lady in China to use a different site where we could exchange info but she had no interest in doing that and was content using Chnlove to communicate.
Is it a scam, don't know for sure.
I will say it is a good chatting site and a perfect way for the site owners to make money.
Now ask yourself, why are there so many gorgeous women wanting a man between the ages of 20 to 70?... It just ain't real!
That is exactly what happen to me, then when the two lady's didn't show up. After I flew to Hong Kong, chnlove offered me lady's to choose from I hadn't chatted with.
Dear Rodger,
Firstly we feel deeply honored and grateful that you can share your concern with us openly.
Regarding your request about exchanging contact information on our site, please kindly notice that Chnlove is an online dating website, our first priority is and always will be the protection of the privacy and safety of our members. Thus members are not permitted to exchange personal contact information via EMF Mail, Live Chat, Love Call, etc. Hope you understand.
But it doesn’t mean members could not meet or contact the ladies in private, actually if you travel to China, to help members enjoy a smooth and nice dating, there’s Cupid Date service provided by our site. With which you can enjoy the assistance from the local agency as well as 1.5 hours free translation services. Sincerely wish this information will be helpful to you.
On the the hand, Sir, whenever you have concerns when using our services, please feel free to contact our customer care team for assistance, we’ll sure spare no effort in helping you.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Regards,
ChnLove Customer Care
Having registered for 2 months, I finally find the girl of my dream! We are now in the stage of understanding, chat and write EMF Mails every day. Even though we haven’t met each other and live thousands of miles away, but I can feel the tacit understanding between us. I am planing a trip to China on August 15 which is a traditional festival in China - Mid Autumn Day. It is a day symbolizing family gathering. And I want to make this day meaningful with HER.
We single people get more lonely as we grow older. Moreover, the busy work and limited social circle nowadays make dating a difficult thing. Thanks to the emergence of online dating websites, now we can date as long as we want. It saves us time and energy! I love Chnlove for I can chat with so many Chinese beauties of my dream. Hope I could reach a happy ending with one of them!
I think Chnlove is getting better on the services, more functional and user-friendly. If they can lower down the services prices to a certain level, there must be more people using it for it has so many kinds of beautiful ladies available to browse! I enjoy appreciating the photos.
Answer: The biggest scam ever. Stay away.
Answer: A lady I wanted to date claimed she was single but I found out she lied after a little research on her. I wrote a letter of my findings to the site admin and they erased her profile subsequently. Speaking from experience, I think it's better to find women who are of similar age and interest because there will be a greater chance of having a successful relationship. Sexy, beautiful and young girls have higher expectation and make breakneck demands on their partners, which makes it hard to be hooked up with them for long.
Answer: Hi guys. I have post a comment "scam, scam, scam. " I have not further proof this is a scam. I meet two ladies from this site recently in China. I show them the letters I sent them which is written in Chinese, 70% of the letter I sent they have not been given to by the agency. And same with the letters that supposed to be sent by them, they have no knowledge of these sent mails. They did not write them. While you guys thinking you are talking to some nice ladies in china, you are actually talking to a male? An old grandma? Hey, you know how phone sex work. These people is scaming both us guys and the girls over there. Beware.
Answer: I found a lady 12 years ago and when she came to US after a couple years my family was telling me she married me for my money and was going to divorce me after her Green Card. Today we have been married 10 years and she was a wealthy Chinese College Professor who spoke good English. Today she makes more money than I do as a Regional Manager of several Panda Expresses and we have a great relationship. She is happy because her Chinese husband cheated on her and she only wanted a man to love and cherish her for who she was... Yes, 10 years marriage now.
Answer: Scam, as is this review itself. This is a review setup intentionally for receiving good reviews. You should read this review, 100% independent. www.datingbusters.com/is-chnlove-com-a-scam-or-a-legit-way-to-meet-asian-women/
Answer: This is a scam site, and an expensive one at that! You will never get A girlfriend or wife here, just heartbreak and spend spend spend With no chance ever of really getting the girls contact info. Run for your life!
Answer: One thing you can do that doesn't cost too much is also to tell the lady you want to call her, tell her you want to only get her phone number... nothing else... tell her it costs too much to talk on the Chn phone line... Get her number, then call her back. It only takes a couple minutes to do that. If the lady doesn't want to give you her phone number... something may be wrong.
Answer: I do not think it has gone bust yet. But as the site is a total FRAUD it should do.
Launched in 1998, Chnlove.com is a member site of Qpid Network, and now one of the leading and most trusted international dating sites dedicated to helping western men find their ideal match in China. Through its strong collaboration with local dating agencies in China, Chnlove continues to attract thousands of sincere single gentlemen every day, and achieves an amazingly high success rate among sites alike.
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Dear Ken,
Thank you for sharing your personal experience in online dating industry, either on our site or on the other sites. We truly wish you could find your ideal lady soon in your life.
Working as a communication platform, Qpid network is dedicated to leading the way as the world's most trusted international dating platform. And we have strict rules to the local agencies in profile selection and approval process, as well as service providing process. The ladies are not hired to perform any tasks whatsoever. We do not deal directly with the ladies and do not charge them or pay them to use our website. Any improper behavior to be found, please inform us, we will take actions accordingly.
With regard to your concerns, actually if you need any assistance, or feel unsatisfied with our solutions, you are always welcome to contact our Customer Care Team with details, we are always here doing our best to address your concern.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Ken, between your lines, we could fully feel your personal expectations on the relationship between you and the ladies, meanwhile, you may have your own opinion towards the ladies and the services. While we would like to remind you that there’s a saying goes “ it takes two to fight”. In a relationship, it also takes the effort from 2 sides to work out. Sometimes, we need to calm down and listen to the counter part and hear her response first instead of focus on what “I” feel, do you agree?;-)
Sincerely wish we could be of some help here, and may you have a wonderful life.
Regard,
ChnLove Customer Care