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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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returns
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New York
1 review
6 helpful votes
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The site is great even though you have to sign up and write a profile thats nothing out of the ordinal but once your on they have free web videos live streaming you can webcam back free and the best IM around for meeting women men transvestites couples and even group sessions dont get me wrong paying for the website is pointless but its the best for free adult hook up and even relationships just depending on what your looking for

Date of experience: July 9, 2013
Mexico
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Sorry liars, that's it. Sure maybe you will meet a real girl, in 4 years I met ONE. The rest, want money, prostitutes, most won't even reply to messages. But they send fake ads to entice, it's all about money, nothing more.

Date of experience: June 7, 2013
Arizona
1 review
0 helpful votes
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When your membership expires, you'll get flirts and emails that are totally bogus. I know, because I got a 'flirt' from a couple right after my membership expired, and so I emailed them to see if they had actually done that. They answered back that they had not, and they themselves had 'sent' emails to other members when they actually hadn't. Also, do the math and figure out their phony "Buy and 3 month Gold Membership and get 1 month FREE", scam. They are charging you for all 4 months. There is NOTHING free about it. Of course, if your $#*! is hard and you're hoping to hook up, you'll probably fork out the bucks like I did. It's pretty much a waste of time...

Date of experience: May 5, 2013
Massachusetts
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Complete and total scam. They fill your site mailbox with bogus emails from fake women, especially when your membership is about to expire. Their instant messaging service works maybe 25% of the time and is the largest complaint from all in the chat rooms. They are known to create fake accounts to generate interest. The majority of women on cam are soliciting from pay per view websites. Don't waste your time.

Date of experience: April 6, 2013
GB
7 reviews
11 helpful votes
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Thought it was a good way to hookup with women. Boy that was a mistake. This was my first time with any type of site like this. Turns out its nice to look at but it is all phony. Tell me this how do u get emails and no one has view ur profile. 3 days I had them removed from email STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE NOTHING REALISTIC ABOUT IT!

Date of experience: March 24, 2013
Illinois
1 review
4 helpful votes
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This site uses shady billing practices... signed up with for a one month premium membership, and did not see that the option where you can pay for standard members to contact you DEFAULTED to the highest rate you could buy. The final billing page before I purchased said 29.95, but I got charged that PLUS 107.40 for this option that I could not see and did not select. STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE, it's such bad news.

Date of experience: January 30, 2013
Louisiana
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I've been a member of this site since 2004 and as with other sites, it has its ups and downs. There are a lot of average looking guys who are seeking beauty queens, but there are also many realistic people looking for normal/natural, looking partners. I'm on different sites and AFF is one of the best.

Play safe

Date of experience: January 6, 2013
Georgia
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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My wife have had a profile on aff for 8 years (started when she was 26) and with much success. She's talked to hundreds of men in all ages there and actually dated over 40 different men of which many became regular lovers and friends.

Date of experience: January 1, 2013
New Zealand
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I created a profile of one of the AFF sites... next thing i know im getting calls and txts from loads of local gay men... As it turns out they made an EXACT copy of the profile i made for the one site (including quite obvious identifying information)... and added it as a new user "profile" to their other site DiscreteGayDating.

Ive been getting calls at all hours, even at 3am in the mornning. I have contacted AFF to ask them to remove it, but im not getting any replys.

I live and do buisness in an extremely small and closenit community. Given the fact that i could easily be 'recognised', I am extemely anxious that this could have massive financial and personal implications.

At best this method of harvesting information to create new 'profiles' is deplorable and highly unethical. At worst illegal.

What a pack of filthy cheating skanky whorehands!... What can i do?... Should i be looking at legal recourse?

Date of experience: October 17, 2012
Pennsylvania
3 reviews
2 helpful votes
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You might meet a girl on here. She might even be close. But she is a cam girl or a hooker. Where you pay her she stripes for you, or she gets you to verify yourelf. You join a site for alot she gets a commission. Either way like all other adult dating and XXX dating sites it is pure b. S.

Date of experience: September 28, 2012
Pennsylvania
12 reviews
29 helpful votes
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You can pay for a Silver or Gold membership and meet people for sex. They might be attractive or ugly, but that depends on what you want. I feel that the memberships are too expensive. You have to have a membership to respond to people. If you have a membership, you can pay extra so people without memberships can reply to your messages. It's all money. They guarantee that you will have sex with someone or your money back, what they don't tell you is that you'd have to have sex with ANYONE on the site be they fat, ugly or stinky. They have chatrooms and they have forums. They won't let you put your email address on your profile so people can contact you easier. If you don't have a membership, then you can only reply to 1 or 2 people every 24HRS! So if you reply to someone at 11PM Monday, then you have to wait until 11PM Tuesday.

Date of experience: August 29, 2012
GB
1 review
10 helpful votes
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AFF is not a scam
March 28, 2012

AFF is not a scam. I've banged around 5 women from the site. Yes, they false advertise with fake profiles, but once you're in the profiles are all genuine. Here's the trick to it: You have to send a PM to EVERY SINGLE woman in your area. You'll get around 3-4 replies to every 100 emails and all but 1 will fizzle out to nothing. IMO a batch of 100-200 PM's will get you sex at least once.

Date of experience: March 28, 2012
Hawaii
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Total scam!
March 27, 2012

Total scam! Hott profiles of "women" that will never meet you, regardless of what you put in your profile. I was a sucker, so you dont have to be one!

Date of experience: March 27, 2012
Rhode Island
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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Spam spam...
March 23, 2012

Spam spam... and more spam?

Most of the 'legit' girls in my area only mess with females so it was a one way street for the most part.

Date of experience: March 23, 2012
Virginia
6 reviews
9 helpful votes
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I bought the Gold membership, and so far all I got was women that direct me to other sites so I can "help out their model status" and then meet up for nsa. They first say its only one site for like 1-3$ and it ends up having to be 3 or more, im not sure cause i never went passed the one. Its been over a month and i still have yet to meet one person that isnt a "working" on there.

Date of experience: November 23, 2011
Norway
1 review
3 helpful votes
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My experience so far (after 1 month) is not so good. I think the idea was good. Say what you will about the idea of searching for other adults with 'adult themes' in mind but having a site for this is not a bad idea.
But the problem I have been having is that the only contact I get are from people with alterior motives...'Western Girls' as I call them

Date of experience: October 5, 2011
GB
4 reviews
9 helpful votes
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I am giving this no stars
September 30, 2011

I am giving this no stars. I am fed up with these fake websites that look professional and glossy but turn out to be total scams. I keep reading this is a excellent site but it is NOT!. Whenever I have got even the inkling of interest the emails stop and on occasions these ladies send me personal email details then when I send email she says she needs to verify my real identity and gives me another link to go into which is a webcam site or pornsite. So total false site avoid like the plague

Date of experience: September 29, 2011
Colorado
11 reviews
70 helpful votes
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This is the first dating site I tried. It seemed mostly populated by girls about 20 years old who apparently could not afford much clothing. They were sooooooooo interested in a 60-plus, overweight, bald, amputee! And so many looked exactly the same in their "photo albums". And so many have Master's Degrees in Transportation Engineering - this is the best they can do? I have a better imagination than that. A complete waste of time and fortune. Stay away if you are a real human being.

Date of experience: June 26, 2011
Washington
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Absolute BS!
March 31, 2011

Absolute BS! Only responses are automated and obviously fake. Most of the people aren't anything but Free members who cannot contact you... unless you pay an extra $25 or so a month on top of your normal fee's. Even left email address and no responses except the fake produced ones from the site. Rubbish!

Date of experience: March 30, 2011
South Carolina
1 review
2 helpful votes
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This site was nothing like it's sister site, FriendFinder.com. I signed up for this site being moved to a new area and in hopes of meeting women to date. This site was full of nothing but pornography and virus ridden profiles. After exchanging e-mails with what I thought was a woman for a number of weeks, I was asked by this "woman" on the site to help them out and ship them money to nigeria because they "lost their wallet". Knowing better I declined and discontinued communications with this person. That was not the last time something like that happened. Multiple, and when I say multiple I mean nearly every woman I spoke to on that site only had one goal, and that was to sign me up to an actual porn site. This site is a total scam, stay far away from adult friend finder.com

Date of experience: March 28, 2011