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Big time scam.
April 5, 2023

Don't waste your money. Multiple profiles using same photos. Fake profiles send "hello" messages hoping you use your credits to open message. If you do, and ask a question all.you get is a key, which costs more credits, to open but then you never hear back from person.
One person pretty much admitted in our conversation that this is what they do and thought it was funny.
You are better off going to a massage parlor.

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Date of experience: March 6, 2023
Australia
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Do not waste your money. This site comes up with more ways all the time for the males to spend money or credits on secret photos or secret questions. Fake girls / ladies that contact you so you can reply and they never answer again but you use your credits. Say well away from this site to many fakes some girls have three profiles at one time with same phones. Not worth a look

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Date of experience: March 5, 2023
Germany
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Real matches using SEcretBenefits
March 2, 2023

I tried this site before but did not meet anyone. I got into a relationship with someone from another site but did not work out. Back on Secret Benefits and the site grew a ton. I am matching with women everyday and hsving sime great chats as well as eventful dates. Very hapoy with my results this time round.

Date of experience: March 2, 2023
Maryland
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Updated review
March 30, 2023

After my initial review about presence of bots, SB came back and explained the situation. So I am going to give them benefit of doubt and continue using the site. Will update this again later based on the outcome.

Date of experience: February 28, 2023
Texas
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
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That site is pure scam.
March 28, 2023

You will only have 1 way conversations with bots. It is a pure scam. If you find the one human on that site you just found the 1 needle hidden in a huge pile of hay. Stay away and save your money.

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Date of experience: February 26, 2023
Texas
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I wasted my money there
March 23, 2023

A lot of girls sent me messages, once opened, they are just junks, basically I wasted my credits to see the messages. I sent out quite a few messages after they pinged me, no response anymore. This is just my experience.

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Date of experience: February 21, 2023
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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3rd time is a charm on Secret Benefits
February 18, 2023

I originally joined SecretBenefits a couple years ago and I did meet someone that I ended up dating for about a year. I cam back to the site after being single again, but I ended up meeting a very beautiful woman on another site. Unfortunately, she ended up being a total nut job so that didn't last long. I ended up going back online to cautiously look for a match again and after going out with several women from a couple different sites including this one, I actually met a woman that I would say is the most beautiful and most compatible woman I've ever been with. We just hit the 3 month marker and I really couldn't be happier with her. I'm very thankful for this website helping bring us together and would like to share my thanks here for this fine service.

Date of experience: February 17, 2023
Massachusetts
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Lot of Cash for no return
February 15, 2023

Similar experience to others. Spent a fortune on credits got some short one word responses or one line response. After you get pictures they disappear. Many posts have pictures that seem too professional. Had only one conversation after sending dozens of messages.

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Date of experience: January 16, 2023
Virginia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Christmas wish come true
December 21, 2022

I joined SB with the goal in mind to meet a really good guy that would want to spend Christmas and New Years with me and make this holiday really special for me. I was alone last year during this time and I knew I did not want that experience again. So long story short is that I didn't Timothy, 12 years older but looks great for his age, and he's a real charmer and kind man. We are going to Mexico together for the holidays, leaving tomorrow, and I couldn't be happier!

Date of experience: December 20, 2022
Pennsylvania
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Credit Issue
January 5, 2023

The team contacted me and resolved the credit buy issue and I was also compensated. Kudos to the team.

Date of experience: December 6, 2022
Georgia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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2,5 big stars for SB
December 1, 2022

Upsetting to think how much time I wasted on other sites for dating. I met my match on secretbenefits.com in the first week and I did not pay a dime.

Date of experience: November 30, 2022
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Came for fun, left with love
November 17, 2022

Tbh, I was newly divorced and joined SB just to forget my past relationship snd meet some fun guys that could show me a good time, but I ended up falling for the first guy I met on the site. We look a little unconventional together, but I don't care, Mitch is a real man and I finally understand how I always should have been treated.

Date of experience: November 17, 2022
District of Columbia
1 review
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Gem in the rough
November 5, 2022

I HAD WASTED SO MUCH TIME AND MONEY ON OTHER DATING SITES. SECRET BENEFITS HAS ATTRACTED SERIOUS SINGLES AND IT'S A FABULOUS WEBSITE.

Date of experience: November 4, 2022
Pennsylvania
1 review
20 helpful votes
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Fakes and flakes, don't waste your time.
November 29, 2022

Amazing there's constantly new profiles of beautiful women popping up in your area, no matter where you live. They all message you and have secret pictures you can buy into. Amazing. Don't expect anything after the first message. You can go through the user agreement and see this site is for "entertainment purposes only".

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Date of experience: October 30, 2022
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Joined for fun, left w/ bf
October 27, 2022

Tbh, I just got out of a serious relationship and joined a few of these sites for sh*ts n giggles. Little did I expect to meet someone that would sweep me off my feet, but here I am 1 month later and I agreed to take it to the next level and date this guy exculsive, haha. He's actually a really good guy so far so pretty happy I found him on this site.

Date of experience: October 26, 2022
Indiana
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Yep, it's Legit, but be careful….
November 20, 2022

There are a mix I have found on this site of bot responses, Fake profiles, and then there are very Legitimate ones! I think I have a secret method of success figured out.

If you are truly seeking to meet up and gain a wonderful attentive sugar baby then read on:

Omit all unverified contacts

Begin with only a heart and a private photo access request.

When they say HI in whatever way they do, judge THAT! A simple, "Hello" followed by no response after yours, I believe may be BOT driven. Not always true, but more often than not you will not see any further response after you respond. That causes you to simply spent credits, which is only in the best interest of our webhost!

If the girl that engages you actually says things of ANY meaningful value then you have a real girl. Watch for the usual unexpected language issues in their text communication. Look for structural grammatical inaccuracies, if they say they are in America, and it's not just typos either. Like listen to their words as if reading from an Eastern European accent, or something. If she states she's foreign, then OK. Honesty and Integrity of sorts does go a long way here I have found. You just might not always like the results. You won; t get the exact girl you might want, or you may find another. It's all a game of search. Once you get to text talking to some real girls you know you want to connect with, then initiate voice contact, and expose your numbers to each other.

Many may want to jump to Telegram, or WhatsApp. I use Telegram for its security (sic) Some may outright give your their numbers. I protect my identity by using Duo, as well as a throw away cell phone for protecting my actual business interests and using Duo's phone number proxy service where the caller ID masks your real ID. There are other very legit, and reputable services such as this that will work to provide the communication you want, and the Identity protection in this underbelly of the world, you are GOING to need. Scammers are abundant! Always, always, always remember that! They will sneak attack when you think you might actually meet someone, but they will NEVER meet, and seldom agree to meet you. NEVER give or send any of your hard earned green to anyone you have NOT met in person, and developed *some* rapport and trust with. Even then there are dishonest girls, and the usual crap you *ALWAYS* gotta look out for. I have so far been lucky to NOT run into any here off of this site.

If your respondent will actually engage in an actual voice conversation, you most likely have the real deal. If they avoid calls, video chats, etc, then beware.

I have found Catphishers, scammers, con artists of all kinds on dating web sites, and they are worse now than ever. AM is the ABSOLUTE worst! SB is good as long as you STAY with the VERIFIED members and you LISTEN to her say the words, "Let me be your secret" in HER Verification video. (That also makes some judge if I want to contact her or not) Also if YOU are Legit, and looking for a gal to spend some quality time with on an exchange basis, VERIFY yourself! If you are worried about being outed, make it private yourself.

Identify yourself immediately to your girl as being legit, once you feel she is more legit than a bot, and prove that in SOME way! Like if you; re both in the same town, mention something very local, that ONLY locals would know, like an excellent brew-pub or something of a local eccentric nature to perhaps suggest for your first meet at. That opens the door to further conversation I find.

The Video chat followed by the coffee date is where the rubber meets the road, and then you two can go off and do whatever…

About the arrangements: The more experienced will be more moo-lah!
Follow regular dating rules. I find mentally "Dating" them and treating them the way they want to be treated in coming to this site, will also gain huge mileage with your SB girl. Unless in your heart you actually are dating them for the arranged exchange. Then of course it's full on - all in! Most all of them I have actually met, are extremely sweet girls who want nothing more than to please YOU and gain something in return. Her SD!

I have had 5 successful initial meetups that 2 for truly logistical and other scheduling (MY bad) and operational reasons didn't work out, and have had three successful sugar baby's from this site. Good Luck Fellas!

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Date of experience: October 20, 2022
Arkansas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Worth the effort
October 12, 2022

I've been using sites like this one for a long time. I'm currently using 3 including Secretbenefits.

I am on everyday and despite half my chats or more not going anywhere, when it's good, it's really good. They consistently attract new members many of which are exceptionally beautiful.

Date of experience: October 11, 2022
New Jersey
1 review
0 helpful votes
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After a long stint of being single and stumbling through the odd world of modern dating I finally found who I think is perfect for me. Great chemistry, shared values and still very attractive as a silver fox, hahaha.
We are very happy as a couple and are both very grateful to have found each other on the Secret Benefits website.

Date of experience: October 10, 2022
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I am meeting women on secretbenefits.com
September 27, 2022

Very good dating site if looking to casually meet hot women for dates. Many open to ongoing relations but don't expect to find a future wife. Many superficial women, but I guess its possible as some I met looking for long term security with a man.

Date of experience: September 26, 2022
North Carolina
3 reviews
24 helpful votes
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Bot heaven
October 25, 2022

The site is packed full of beautiful female bots for you to waste your credits on. Genuine women are in the minority.
If you are a guy, save your money and go elsewhere.

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Date of experience: September 25, 2022