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This site is a fraud you will get scammed and all the women are fake and full of lies and deceit! Save your money stay the hell away!
Do not use this site! They rip you off and charge high credits. It is a scam from India! Even customer support are jerks that hang up on you and are rude. It's not a date site, it's a prison. You still get charged when the site blocks your contact. I can't believe that I even have to give them 1 star. It should be a negative 5 stars.
First of all, they need to employ someone in their customer service department who can express good English. They also give no definition on what is a VIP customer.
Secondly, using a mouse to navigate this site does not make things any easier because there is only a tiny narrow place to scroll down and they don't plan to fix it so I don't plan to keep wasting time trying to find the razor thin line to scroll up and down to view the profiles.
They do not list the normal costs for credits! They probably think that this will scare everyone off. After the initial deal of 2.99 for 35 credits I assume that these will later cost 12.99.
What is most disturbing is that making a request for a girl's contact information costs 500 Credits, and this option will only be available after 5,000 Credits have been spent on that lady! Based on the 12.99 for 35 credits that would mean that it costs nearly $195 to get a girl's contact information AFTER we have paid $1950 in credits TO COMMUNICATE WITH JUST ONE GIRL! Do the math yourself! No wonder they are ashamed to publish these costs on the website!
What kind of fool do they think we are?! This is the most ridiculously high singles site I have ever visited! It looks like they are waiting to take advantage of any naive man who will fall in love with one of the profiles on the site so they can clean them out of all their money. Stay away from them! I did not give them one dime but instead I wrote to their customer service more than once.
I challenge any of the My Special Dates customer service team to show me that my report of them is untrue. They are part of Astrasoft Projects which should be renamed Astronomically High Cost Projects!
LoveForHeart.com, myspecialdates, Sofiadate, amourmeet, nikadate, amourpulse, feelflame, datempire, avodate, latidate and many more besides. The woman who swears she is "only interested in you " and has " no other men " will be talking simultaneously to many, promising everything to anyone daft enough to fail for the scam. Elyzaveta Rechenskaya has fleeced me of many thousands, always with the promises of exclusivity and a beautiful future. It starts immediately you click on the view profile. Instantly, you get a like back, enticing you into further contact. A day later came the supposedly deep understanding of how expensive the site is, and a series of doomed to fail scam letters, each with a video of one digit attached, apparently containing her Telegram number. Lol, it's laughable, the number never works, but you have just paid hundreds for a worthless collection of numbers. Then, by some "miracle " she manages to " find " you on Telegram. She claims to have "no social media" and no online presence anywhere. All about as fake as the profile, claiming to live in Odesa, have no children, and misspellings of names to stop you finding the truth. After months of investigation, I found her in Kyiv. Her Facebook profile shows her as engaged to be married, and after paying thousands to earn the right to communicate away from the site, this largely consisted of a few emails, then total silence. The only time Telegram ever got used was to demand money, with never any single step forward offered in return. The eternal wait for the meeting she " desperately wants " will be paid for multiple times, and always a string of excuses will follow about why it can't happen now. If you want to test any of this, get a friend to set up an account as I did, and witness in real time how totally devoid of feelings for you these girls really are. Elyzaveta was busy telling me how much she loved me and couldn't wait for our meeting, whilst indulging in virtual sex with my best friend, who set up an account to expose her as a fraud. So beware, Yelyzaveta Rechenskaya, who turns 25 on 30th July, is on almost every site scamming the life out of all comers. She will claim to have no money for food, and if you're stupid enough to fall for it, she'll repay you by sending videos to everyone of her spending your money. The social media are full of luxury goods, cosmetic surgeries, Monaco, Dubai and all the trappings of aspirational wealth. You're paying for her lifestyle, and when she thinks she has bled you dry, you will be abruptly dumped from all contact, and she will already be working on the next. Is she an isolated case? Certainly not, and the site actively encourages, aids and abetts such behaviour, because two parties are making pots of money at the expense of men who think they're on a proper dating site. Caveat Emptor, you will lose as much money as you are prepared to, and ultimately will have nothing to show for it. The greatest shame is that Ukraine is full of beautiful women, but they know this well. Just watch how they all come online for the American market, and all stay online all night to capture that lucrative market. You will be lied to, gaslit, and if she thinks things aren't going her way, wait and see how things turn nasty. Mine advertised herself on her profile as open, kind and sincere. Nothing could be further from the truth. Scheming, lying, manipulative and not a hint of loyalty. Stay clear, this is simply a scam
Dear Steve,
Thank you for sharing your detailed experience with us. I am truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you’ve faced and the distress this has caused you. Your feedback is important, and I want to address your concerns directly.
First and foremost, I want to assure you that our platform is committed to providing a safe and genuine dating environment. We take allegations of fraudulent activity very seriously, and we have strict policies in place to prevent and address scams. Your description of the situation is deeply concerning, and we will investigate this matter thoroughly.
If you have specific details or evidence regarding the fraudulent activity you encountered, please reach out to us directly at [email protected]. This will enable us to take appropriate action and enhance our efforts to protect users from such experiences. We appreciate your diligence in bringing this to our attention.
We are continuously working to improve our platform and user experience, and your feedback helps us in this process. While we strive to create a positive and trustworthy environment, we understand that there are challenges in online dating. We are committed to addressing these issues and ensuring that our platform is a safe space for all users.
Thank you once again for your feedback. We hope to have the opportunity to address your concerns and improve our service based on your valuable insights.
I appreciate the user-friendly interface and the safety measures in place on this platform. While the women here are fantastic, there are moments when I struggle to find the exact match I'm seeking. Has anyone else encountered similar challenges?
Dear Floyd,
Thank you for your kind words about our platform! We’re glad to hear that you appreciate the user-friendly interface and the safety measures we have in place.
We understand that finding the perfect match can sometimes be a challenge, and you’re not alone in experiencing this. Our platform aims to connect users with a range of profiles, and we continuously work to improve our matching algorithms to help you find better matches more easily.
If you have specific preferences or are facing challenges in your search, please feel free to reach out to us at [email protected]. We’d be happy to offer tips and assistance to help refine your search and improve your experience on our platform.
Thank you again for your feedback, and we hope you find the connection you’re looking for!
Here is the letter I sent to *******@myspecialdates.com after they decided to ban me from their site due to chargebacks:
I, like you, hate to be scammed. There were many women on your site that promised me the moon, were very seductive and I realize now, it was only a scam to urge me to buy more and more credits.
2 women, if they really are women, were quite convincing:
Angelina, 43
ID *******952
Kyiv, Ukraine
And
Inna, 44
ID *******257
Kremenchuk, Ukraine
It is very obvious to me, that these 2 women are employees of your service, and their goal is to find lonely men and drain their pockets.
Along with disputing every charge your people scammed from me, I'm going to make it my mission to report my experience to every review site I can find.
You have today to refund all charges to my accounts which include: *******
If I get no satisfaction, I will continue on with my mission. That mission is to spare lonely men from heartbreak and monetary loss.
No regards,
Hello, Christopher! We are sure you'll get your money back if your claim is reasonable and you provide the necessary proof. However, finding love is never easy. Just like in real life, misfortunes online also happen. You may try getting in touch with other members, surely you'll find the one to your liking!
...you have to realize they are manning the post in shifts, with different people. And that picture of an attractive Ukranian woman is just a picture, not a person. It is just a lure to get you to buy more credit to chat and chat and chat until you are broke. If this is all you want, it may be the cheapest site for chatting with the most beautiful pictures of women. God knows Ukraine needs the money. But I couldn't figure out how to meet any of them.
Hello, Jerry! Thanks for sharing your opinion. Could you be more specific, please? What problems have you encountered while using the service? We manually verify every profile we post on the website, and our users can meet in reality if both of them long for a long-term relationship. Please, contact us at [email protected] and describe the issue in detail. We'll be glad to help you solve the problem.
Sites MyspecialDates, Sofia, Valentine, Bravodate, Anastasia, AmourMeet/Feel/Factory, Dream-Singles are all same shell company from Cyprus. Same women with different profiles/photos/professions. Same person different names Lydia/Lidiia, Iryna/Ira/Irena/Irina… E.G. Women say from Odessa, but in other Cities and countries. All have a Master's Degree? Ask specifics of their profession, they have no idea, can't remember or hard to answer. Say they don't know English, boy they know English & words well don't be fooled.
WOMEN TAKE CASH NOT GIFTS per customer support! Props & fake certificates.
Conversations divert you to sex. Different women work same profile in shifts. Professional Scammers. Per CNN Ukraine is 2nd most corrupt after Russia! Remember It's your money. It's entertainment not an investment.
Hi there!
We're sorry you had a bad experience, and we appreciate your feedback. Please let us know if you have contacted our support team on the website? If you have any technical problems or any other problems, please contact us at [email protected]. Could you please tell us id of your profile? We can specify you problem more clearly then. Because at the moment, unfortunately, it looks like this is a targeted attack on our platform. Contact support directly on the site and they will help you guaranteed.
These websites MyspecialDates, Sophia, Valentine, Bravodate are all owned by the same shell company out of Cyprus. Same women with different profiles, upgraded photos, All prices in US dollars. Women you talk to my say they are from e.g. Odessa, but are in other Cities and other countries. Profiles are all fake all say have a Masters Degree. When you ask them specifics about their job or profession they have no idea or can't remember or hard to answer. Their conversations divert you to sex. Professional whores.
How can everyone on the site have a masters degree. All they want to do is suck your money dry by sending blurred messages, blurred photos, video and audio. All cost from 10 credits to 50 credits to view. It gets wildly expensive quickly. Also, customer support is poor. They will short you credits and rip off your money every time. All the women have free access and get paid by the number of items you pay to view.
Hello, Chad!
Thank you for your feedback and we're sorry you had a bad experience. The fact is that in Eastern Europe, most people have a master's degree, it is the specificity of the region and the peculiarities of the educational system. Please provide id of your profile so that our support team can assist you. Or contact directly through the site thanks to the email address: [email protected]. This is how all our users request subteam, we will do our best to help you.
That about covers it. How and why other people rate this site is not a good rating. The biggest thing I can contest to is the fact they are trying to get all the money they can out of you, they do a good job of that. I did not know what I was getting into until it was too late. All of my money was gone, not that much, but ALL of it, short time, (4 days) and ($4,000 dollars) OK now you know what can happen and the rest is up to you//
Singing off; One dumb $#*!.
Hello, Robert!
We're sorry you had a bad experience, but we appreciate your feedback and we are here to help. Please provide your profile ID so that our team can try to help you. Please let me know if you have contacted the support team directly? If not, please write to this email address and we will definitely help you: [email protected].
Using the platform for 7 months. I've been pleasantly surprised by the high level of compatibility I've found with some of the members I've met here. Svetlana and Olha are very versatile and both seem interested in my life. As for minor drawbacks, no mobile app makes me tied to my pc…
Hello, Blanche!
Thank you very much for your feedback! We sincerely rejoice for your success in personal communication! We work for you!
The profiles I have checked so far are engaging and filled with optimism. That's what I focus on when choosing a match to start chatting with. Because I come here to calm down and get some new emotions to fight the struggles I am facing now. Thanks, guys!
Hello, Beja!
We thank you for your feedback! We work for you and your comfort.
I like the most that the user interface is intuitive and user-friendly. So I can effortlessly navigate and connect with women I choose from the list of matches. Yet, I guess it would be better if the site introduced some psychological tests for better compatibility..
Hi there!
Thank you very much for your feedback! We are happy to read such words. We will also bring to attention all your wishes. Thanks for helping us get better!
I am grateful for the opportunities to go on fun and exciting online dates with fascinating women. The chat is convenient, messages are sent quickly and I can attach as many files as I wish. At first, I wasn't sure that the ladies are real, but as our conversations got more meaningful, I understood women are looking for real relationships here
Hi there!
Thank you very much for your feedback! We do everything to make the platform as comfortable as possible. Glad you appreciated it. We wish you pleasant communication!
This site gave me a sense of hope after I lost my wife. It is difficult for me to open up, but I must admit that women here are very understanding and don't hurry me up. As for minuses, the mobile version could be better.
Hi there!
Thank you for your feedback and our condolences for your loss. We are doing everything to become better, so we will bring your wishes in attention. Thank you and we hope you find what you are looking for!
I appreciate the privacy and security measures in place, which have made me feel comfortable sharing my information and engaging in conversations. And Support is always there for me. Great place for everyone looking for love or just reliable friends. Recommend it, bro.
Hi, Matthew!
Thank you, we are glad that we were able to create a really comfortable and safe place! We work for you!
The variety of profiles I've come across is impressive. I can explore different personalities and lifestyles thanks to women's pictures and video shows and then decide which woman I like best. But I dislike when I get too many messages from unknown ladies, so I answer only to members I deem worthy.
Hi there!
Thank you for your feedback! We hope you find what you are looking for! Our platform will help you with this.
I adore this function! You can send a like to the girl and she will notice you! There are many men online so it's better to be active not to miss your special one. You can also like a girl's videoshow to attract her attention. PS. That's what I did to find my swetheart.
Hi, William!
Thank you for your feedback and thank you for choosing our platform! We wish you to find what you want!
Sweet members and rich profiles. Nowhere else I have seen so beautiful ladies. You may think they are photoshopped, but there are routine pictures too, so it's easy to make sure girls are real. And if you want to stand out from the crowd, just study a girl's profile, where she mentions many details about herself and her dream man.
Hi, Kevin!
Thank you for your feedback! We're glad you're enjoying the platform. Thank you for choosing us!
Think the app will be more comfortable to use. Good site, but why is there no application? Wish it downloaded faster. But I think I have met my special woman here. She is charming, witty, and wants to get to know me better. Katerina has a child, but that's not a problem for me if we continue getting along well.
Hello, Earl!
Thank you for your feedback and we are glad you were able to find what you were looking for! We will bring in attention all your wishes, because we are working on becoming better. Thanks for your comments, we really appreciate them!
Answer: Yes, for every single message. The amount increases as they sell you photos, still more as they elevate to videos. The craziness is when you get sucked into sending virtual gifts, supposedly to avoid " Ukrainian corruption ". It's simply a scam, nothing more. Don't believe a single word of all the endless promises of what you get in return. EVERYTHING is fake, and she will take your money one day, then send naked videos to your friends the next day, without any sense of guilt. Scammers rule the site. I'm sure there are genuine girls here too, but I challenge everyone to find one, based on what I have written now. Elyzaveta Rechenskaya of Musa Dancespace in Kyiv, you really should be ashamed of what you're doing


Dear Charles,
Thank you for sharing your detailed feedback. I’m sorry to hear about your frustrations with our platform and appreciate the opportunity to address your concerns.
First and foremost, I apologize if our customer service did not meet your expectations. We are actively working to improve our communication and ensure that our team can assist you effectively. Your comments about the clarity of our customer service interactions are noted, and we will be taking steps to enhance this aspect of our service.
Regarding the navigation issues you experienced, we understand how important a user-friendly interface is. We are currently reviewing our website’s design and functionality to make improvements. Your feedback on the scrolling issue will be taken into account as we work to create a more intuitive experience for our users.
We also appreciate your comments on the pricing structure. Transparency is crucial, and we are committed to providing clear and accurate information about our costs. We will review our pricing information to ensure that it is presented more clearly and openly. I understand how complex and concerning our credit system might appear, and we will make efforts to clarify this on our website.
As for the specific concerns about the costs associated with communication, we are committed to fair and transparent pricing. I assure you that we are continuously evaluating our pricing model to ensure it reflects the value of the services we offer. Your feedback will be useful in this evaluation process.
I regret that your experience has led you to this conclusion, and I appreciate you bringing these issues to our attention. If you have any additional feedback or if there’s anything specific you’d like to discuss, please reach out to us directly at [email protected]. We are here to help and would welcome the chance to address any remaining concerns you may have.
Thank you for your time and for providing us with valuable insights.