Katarina Phang- the "relationship coach"- the "man whisperer" is a hoax.
Katarina Phang claims to be a man whisperer. She swears she can help fix any relationship and bring you to true love. Right.
Couple of problems:
1) Her teachings are "based" on Eastern philosophy- which she just barely understands, except she puts a gimmicky spin on it.
For instance: instead of just teaching her clients how to practice self-reflection for self-growth, she has embraced a gimmicky approach- instead teaching to not be reactive by engaging with distractions instead.
Her fundamental teaching is to lean back no matter what. Your man is noncommittal- don't complain, don't react, don't say a word- just lean back. Date other men. Come up with a rotation (date several other men). A distraction. Maybe in so doing, one of these men in your side dating group will woo you over until you forget about the one that doesn't want you & commit to the new guy who is putting in a ton of effort instead.
Where I grew up, we called this common sense. If you're not in a committed relationship & the guy you like doesn't seem to like you- move on. Very basic. You're going to pay someone to tell you this?
I wish there was more to it, but there really isn't. Her premise is that men don't want to argue, they don't want to be questioned, or pressured into a relationship. Don't talk about your feelings. Don't ask him what you are. Don't pressure him into commitment of any sort. Be pleasant all the time. Mirror him. He takes two days to call, take two days to call back...
Where I come from, we call that "give him the same energy he's giving you." Again, common sense.
What happens when you really love him & you have a history? What happens when he begins to MIRROR you? What happens when there other things in the equation not factored into her "one size fits all philosophy?" Crickets.
Yes, that's right. No answer. Her followers will jump on the line to give you some variation of "lean back & rotate." It's all so basic, you can't tune in for long, or at all.
Save your time. Save your money.
I promised a couple of reasons, so here's the second:
2) Katty doesn't stick to her professed role of being a "relationship coach." Oh no. Katty feels compelled to give her two cents about politics & you guessed it, Boo is a big fat trump supporter.
Now personally, I blame this ideology on her man. He's white & it seems fitting that when they're cuddling & figuring new ways to charge for her repetitive advice, they sit and talk about how right trump is about his white nationalist policies and rhetorics and how crazy and extreme lefties are failing to embrace his brand of RACISM. She says is. Extreme lefties. Believe me.
Adding injury to insult, she tries to use Buddhist philosophy to do it. Barely grasping Buddhism herself, she espouses bits of it to an audience that may be unaware & attempts to present herself as some sort of guru when it's obvious she has an extremely basic grasp- if that- herself. And beware, there are MANY people out there that can hear and repeat something great without a heartfelt understanding of those principles. It's abundantly clear that is the case with Katty.
So buyer beware. She'll charge a fortune to give you information you can get by googling the teachings of the Buddha yourself. And the truth is, you'll probably walk away with a deeper understanding of the text. If you're feeling charitable and are in the mood, maybe you can teach it to her.
*Make sure you charge.
What she should be HONEST with her clients and state is that they can have love and MORE if they just actually practiced Buddhist teachings, or put in the actual work to develop themselves mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.