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This is a great site I have been a member for over 10 years now and had over 400 guys and still going strong.
Complete waste of time, verification means absolutely nothing, the site is full of time wasters and people so far up their own butt holes. The site administrators are non existent/ not contactable unless of course you get reported for calling a member ignorant then as if by magic they appear.
Dont waste your time and most of all don't pay to upgrade the site is complete and utter crap
Offered myself to 2 men for first time I was virgin with men. They used me. Double penetrated me. Superb experience n so easy to use
Having been a member of many gay dating sites, this has been my best experience so far. I have had successful meetings with well over 100 guys in the past three years.
It is easy to create a profile, and to navigate the site menu.
The site forum provides good advice for newcomers, and there are experienced guys who will guide you through whatever adventure you choose.
Been using this site for a number of years along with sister site originally it was good to find local people who were genuinely looking for other like minded people.
In the last 2-3 years it has become a yet another waste of time being filled with people using multi accounts to infest the forums with their own political agendas, One such person has at least 4 accounts to get around bans and is seemingly encouraged by the waste of space Mods and even the people behind the scenes!
The worse thing this site ever did was to sell its soul to the devil for a bag of money!
Seems to be a lot of bitter people with bizarre complaints about the site. I've used it for 4-5 years both as a free any paying member and found both website and app version useful and good value.
Free members get unlimited messaging, profile views, picture uploads and forum access.
Yes, there are lots of timewasters on the site but name a dating site that doesn't.
Yes there are lots of bi/married and crossdressers on the site, but just ignore them if that's not what you are looking for.
Personally, I think it's fine if you're looking for local (or even far away) guys. You get a lot for free, give it a go.
Been almost 3 hrs and still not verified load of old bollocks! Why the $#*! did they have to change it?
Been on this site for a good while was good a few years back - now hopeless - too many time wasters and Admin useless - as someone else says quick enough take your money! No Modification Guys come and go with a different profile and e mail even when reported. If you report someone chances are ~Admin blocks you - dont want the Hassle so What are you paying for. No checking of profiles several unpaid guys have numerous profiles. Many rent boys wanting money for sex. Stay Clear and save your money and watch out some very unsavoury characters especially if you are married or partnered beware Blackmail and outing happens on here!
As a hook up site it was ok, I had some good meets, some not so good but that's parr for the course.
Admin was pretty much useless, there is a suggestion section on the forums, but they never action anything.
The forums in general are a joke. Unless you have an extreme left view, you're just going to get bullied. The moderators come down hard on most things that are taboo, unless it's a thread or response from one of the usual far left contributors. They seem to be untouchable.
Trans-phobia is rife on the forums, many folk see it as a gay man only site and can be quite abusive about it. Likewise many bi-sexual contributors are also attacked.
If your political views are left and you are a Gay man, this is the site for you. Anything else then look elsewhere.
Overall, if you just want a quick hook up for sex, then it's probably not too bad, but if you want to get more out of the site then you may be disappointed.
There's a lot of time wasters, photo collectors and people running multiple accounts, however there are genuine guys to be found and the forum is worth a look.
My main interest is in cross dressers, TV/TS/TG and there's lots of nice genuine gurls to be found.
In my view it's worth the inexpensive upgrade to make full use of the video posts and other features
Blocked me, and didn't even have the courtesy to tell me, just because I questioned them about threatening to report me for a physical meet. Was actually reported by a sour queen that I said no to, but rather than check the messages sent me a threatening message. Questioned this and got blocked.
I was a fully paid member for 3yr plus, I was message chatting to a lad, during couple days of messing, the lad just disappear left me type messaging getting no replies, told lad hes a time waster, I said it takes 10ish seconds to type sorry I need to or have to go, he blocked me THAT WAS FINE, then following day did a report on me saying I was trying make a meet during covid, just a revenge report, this monitor said I be blocked, but on the site, monitors cant be contacted so you can argue your case, so
Whettone greater london, u monitor REINSTATE My profile
Total money grabbers, admin not interested if you have problems with abuse from other members and then suspend you for absolutely no reason. Avoid at all costs!
This site used to be good fun - but now heavily moderted and very difficult to join - must be photo verifed and stipulations as must see hands -is absolutley rediculous- also beware of fantasy chat as they take it on her ethat all you say will occurr - -quite bizarre its turned into somethign like twitter or facebook totlaly lost its purpsoe - for consenting adult chat fun etc - take your money and then ban ypou - - - - AVOID
Presumably FabGuys thought it would be a good idea to open up the forums from their sister-site Cottaging.co.uk at the start of the Covid pandemic, to give their members a little bonus due to not being able to hook up due to the lockdown rules. Little could they have known what a nest of Vipers this was going to be. Over-run by vicious little Marys, Snowflakes, Virtue Signallers, cantankerous old farts and back-stabbing vermin who hit the mods alert button at the drop of a hat with minimal provocation, but more often than not for no f$&*ing reason at all.
Best of all are the forums 'Matriarchs' who infest, and start threads on a daily basis, just for the sake of doing so, and presumably, to see their names 'up in lights'. The most notable subjects are as listed below...
Someoneelsesname - previously the member known as happy and curious who after a username change (due to being banned from said forums), now commutes between Bristol and Falkirk to post there. A truly obnoxious git who thinks his every word is gospel. Loads of other members sussed him out virtually from the start and he cannot accept he's been busted. A very melancholy individual with as much personality as a cold turd.
Midsbeargrrr - our self-appointed resident alleged comedian. Well, the reality is, he's not even CLOSE to funny. Just like the late and unlamented Preston Gnome, all of his threads in the forum are juvenile and asinine, and are clearly the work of some deranged troll who doesn't know when to stop. If it wasn't for other like-minded idiots (like Sleepflower and WatchMeCum for instance), all his threads would die an instant death. He's about as funny as a urinary tract infection.
No Nonsense - needs to find another username as everything he hoists up on the forum is nonsense. Terminally puerile, and woe betide you if you don't agree with everything he posts up. Out go the toys from the pram like the big baby he is, and tantrums abound. Definitely needs some lobotomy work doing.
DeepCockMeat - Another opinionated scrote with sewage for brains. A veritable band-wagon jumper who is all over everything like a rash, but with not one original thought in his stinking carcass. Needs to order up a straight-jacket from Very as soon as possible.
Uncut guy - also known as Wendy from Worthing. A sanctimonious piece of work, a veritable tit and unstoppable gasbag. Another tantrum thrower and opinionated w^%ker with the gospel overtones of someoneelsesname. This twerp is a virtue signaller of the highest calibre and everything he posts up should be ignored.
This site has just got worse and worse. It's now nothing more than a married bi man's site for sex behind his wife's back. Gay men are certainly a minority on that site these days. I'm shocked at some of the dreadful threads in the forum. Heaven knows what would happen if the wives ever found out just what their beloved husbands and boyfriends got up to on that site. I'll never go back, I'll stick with Scruff and a couple of proper gay mens sites,
Its good to start but you soo realise that there are too many rude and ignorant users! Yes people are verified, however, too many are not and too many time wasters and those who do not answer your messages - they just block you. Admin are inefficient and only want your cash - not a site i would recommend to anyone no matter how desperate you are to meet guys.
To many timewasters. People not answering your messages. We all adults if someone is not your type just say so instead of blocking that is so childish.
Don't bother, find more action at the local shop. 99% of the guys on there are dreamers, that live in their own little sexual fantasy world. The ones that do bother to contact you, either let you down, don't turn up, or are not as described or pictured. Only 1% are truly genuine. Don't waste money on credits.
Fabguys is crap. Full of dirty old men on there. You send guys a message on there and they dont have the decency to get back to you even with a polite "No thanks"
