Established MenReviews 31

It is an outrageously expensive fantasy and scam from start to finish! You are buried in computer generated messages, then you chat for days, months and years but no girl would reveal any personal info. If you like real girls AFFlirts.com is the site that really stands out. I used to meet awesome girls there and I went on vacation with one of them. Anyway, don't get your hopes up because EstablishedMen girls flood you with chat requests and messages. This is how they make money. It's just their job. They don't have an intention to meet men for any kind of relationship other than conning them out of their money. They just keep stringing you along! I learned my fair share of lessons there. Do your wallet a favor and avoid this scam!

They use fake profiles to bait people into buying a membership. Then catfishers and scammers do their best to con you out of your money. Having spent 3 months on EstablishedMen I lost hope to meet at least one genuine lady. EstablishedMen is one of the lamest dating platforms I have ever dealt with. I exposed myself to multiple attempts of scam from con artists from all over the world when I joined it. Even though I did not send money to anyone, but I wasted a lot of my time which is more precious than money.

EstablishedMen is scam and spam. They have more fakes that you can imagine. Whenever you see a pretty girl on EstablishedMen you can be 100% sure she is a scammer. Even women with average looks usually turn out to be scammers. You won't meet anyone no matter how hard you try and how much time and money you spend there. EstablishedMen is perfectly set up to rob people.

This site is 100% scammers. They all send the same messages too so it's blantantly obvious. I am sure I will not get value for my investment here.

Even worse, prostitutes are mixed with bunch of scammers who want your money upfront. If you want a classy hot sugarbaby, look elsewhere. I think AFF96.com
Is suitable for this purpose. They are quite good. They still have plenty of real girls who look and act like real sugar babies (not prostitutes).
The best thing you can get out of your EstablishedMen membership are juicy chat messages and some nudes. Alas, these are usually fake photos and you could as well find them yourself on porn stars' Instagram accounts.

Free options don't work. They stipulate that you buy premium membership to contact people who liked you. But then you can't find these people anymore. Established Men is just another dating scam with very few genuine profiles! The rest are just fakes who never reply when you contact them. Also there are many scammers. They always reply, but then they make up a sob story and ask you to help them out.

Not an exaggeration. Not a single match was real. Either bots, escorts or scammers. What a waste of time. I cancelled even before my subscription ended to avoid the annoying, useless notifications.

Every single profile on EstablishedMen.com is phoney. A very quick image search on Tineye or even Google Images will reveal where these scam merchants have stolen the pic from. Do yourself a favor, if you are looking for love stick with Match.com or POF and if it's just sex you want give AdultFriendFinder a go, there are a lot of protocols to learn but the quicker you learn them the quicker you'll get laid.

The site is run by absolutely disingenuous people who resort to using all kinds of tricks to entice you into paying, including fake photos and automatic sendouts of template letters done by bots. There are sites with real ladies where all women profiles are background checked, so chances to fall for a scammer are low. I feel the difference and I can say that these women are genuine by their wish to meet, their tact and politeness, they have great looks and vibrant personalities. It's nothing like Establishedmen.com, where they just make you exchange messages with bots until you remain unsuspecting. Just be smart and stay away from it!

I joined EM as a SB- Black Female
Followed all their rules, terms and conditions
Upload my profile
Got a few likes and messages here and there
In less than 24 hours, my account was suspended and apparently they don't owe me an explanation.

Strange!

I have been with them for years and actually had some success with them. You just have to go thru a hundred scam profiles to get to the one real one. Be prepared to spend literally hundreds of hours to find the one legitimate girl. Lately, tho, things have gotten worse. It's like they no longer care that the vast majority of profiles are fake. Not only that - The last time I tried to sign up they actually took the money from my card and never activated my membership. Sent them three emails with no response...

Every woman on this site wants you to send them money for gas to meet you or they want you to send them money because they say they are starving with promises of meeting you and they always have an excuse as to why they are unable to meet you. If you like throwing away your money then this site is for you as the women on here are a bunch of money grubbers.